View Full Version : Are you Shy?
Nastro
May 4, 2004, 09:15 AM
What a lot of people don't believe, I am a very shy person.
I said this to a girl last week and she nearly died laughing.
But I am, honest.
Ropy
May 4, 2004, 10:48 AM
What a lot of people don't believe, I am a very shy person.
I said this to a girl last week and she nearly died laughing.
But I am, honest.
roflmo
dwl
Bway Nastro mi and u a bredrin but u lie noh backside. Bout yu shy, since when? :eusa_eh: :confused:
Lady Value$
May 4, 2004, 11:35 AM
Nastro That's really hard to believe ...YOU !!!!!!!!!!!SHY!!!!!!!!!!!!! come on ...that' not true
Lady Value$
May 4, 2004, 12:04 PM
As for me I WAS a very shy girl at one point in time but now I am very outspoken.......
Xenocrates
May 5, 2004, 12:06 AM
What a lot of people don't believe, I am a very shy person.
I said this to a girl last week and she nearly died laughing.
But I am, honest.
You're shy? In which past life?
If I were that girl, I'd laugh too. Heck, I'm laughing to tears as I type this...
BlackCryptoKnight
May 5, 2004, 07:59 PM
Nas, I know where you're coming from cuz.
I too am shy :icon_redf
Nas I'll tell u what u are, attention seeker ,thats what u are :rolleyes:
Chris
May 5, 2004, 08:54 PM
Nas I'll tell u what u are, attention seeker ,thats what u are :rolleyes:
and that's the opposite of being shy ;)
Skillachi
May 5, 2004, 09:34 PM
I am between shy and attention seeker... i am a shy attention seeker
Greatis
May 6, 2004, 09:08 AM
Nas you shy hahaha. :icon_lol:. Well maybe you are cause I am shy. I don't like crowds. I get nervous, clumsy and stuff like that so maybe I can Identify with your shyness. ;)
Xenocrates
May 9, 2004, 03:02 PM
Then lemme ask unno something:
If y'all spend so much time behind a PC, to the point where physical social interaction has become something of a novelty, what would you expect?
Or was it the other way around, where because you are shy, you resort to social interaction via the PC? When I met a couple a you goodfellas @ the CES, the shyness factor did strike me as a little disturbing.
Dev
May 10, 2004, 10:22 AM
I would say I'm reserved. I'm still shy in a sense but I don't care.
Chris
May 10, 2004, 10:32 AM
I must confess that I don't think I have a shy bone in me anymore. I overcame a sense of shyness during my 6th form in high school and I think what helped is my developing a sense of confidence in myself. Of course this strategy alone won't work overnight but it slowly develops over time.
d_knight
May 11, 2004, 10:32 AM
same as greatis, not a fan of crowd even though i can't seem to avoid them, i'm a shy guy
Dev
May 11, 2004, 01:35 PM
I like watching a crowd. If anyone saw me sitting on the wall infront of McDonalds @ Baywest and wondered what i was doing well now you know. Especially on Fridays.
Call me an Observer if you like.
Lisa20
June 21, 2004, 06:42 PM
What a lot of people don't believe, I am a very shy person.
I said this to a girl last week and she nearly died laughing.
But I am, honest.
As ropy said mi an yu a fren but u lie no backside. I would like to know, however what part of u is shy, and i agree with the girl. If u had told me you were shy i would probably still be laughing :icon_lol: :icon_lol: :icon_lol:
Honestly
Chris
June 21, 2004, 11:18 PM
well Nastro, looks like you can no longer go around town giving people that line :icon_lol:
NirVana
June 23, 2004, 08:38 PM
I'm not shy... :eusa_shif Just TERRIFIED of any kind of social interaction! :icon_eek:
NirVana
June 23, 2004, 08:52 PM
As for Nastro...I do think he's shy...
I mean, why else would he say "If you think you are in love.....RUN!!!!" :rolleyes:
W.I.L.L.Y
July 6, 2004, 01:06 PM
well i was dark and fool fool as my mother once put it now i'm jus shy :) lol
Nastro
July 6, 2004, 03:01 PM
I am easily embarassed so I tend to be reserved when it comes on to certain things.....
What gives you an indication that someone is shy?
Gillion
July 6, 2004, 04:27 PM
I am easily embarassed so I tend to be reserved when it comes on to certain things.....
What gives you an indication that someone is shy?
They smell shy :icon_mrgr
Greatis
July 6, 2004, 05:45 PM
They smell shy :icon_mrgr
Heheh :icon_lol: really now I did not know someone could smell shy...
Arch_Angel
July 6, 2004, 06:31 PM
Well, if you can smell fear, you could probably smell shy too... ;)
Gillion
July 7, 2004, 10:11 AM
Almost every human gives off instantaneous clues as to their mood, attitude and emotions. These cues are often dead giveaways despite what the person is telling you.
Its detecting these clues that requires a great deal of, patience, observation and some training.
For me, eye contact, body language and the stress in someones voice is something that I look at keenly. I am not good at it yet however.
Hint: Women are the ones that exhibit voice stress most easily.
As for smell there are occasions that one can detect a slight... scent... but since I am no dog, (I am a coyote thats likes to make inventions) I am not keen on that. Anyway the scent comes about because a person under stress (from fear/anxiety etc) sweats more and certain reactionary hormones released into the blood stream come out in sweat.
Thanks to the advent of perfumed soaps, deoderant and colonges, these aromatic clues are not easily detected by us humans... but a DOG is still very keen to it.
I heard some time ago that most wild birds fly away from humans because we smell like carnivours :rolleyes:
---gillion
Chicokid
July 8, 2004, 09:03 AM
Well I am also very shy especially when it comes to girls and love.
I could get a particular girl who I like if I wanted to but my "shyness" (if that's a word) killing me
Gillion
July 8, 2004, 10:14 AM
Well I am also very shy especially when it comes to girls and love.
I could get a particular girl who I like if I wanted to but my "shyness" (if that's a word) killing me
You assume you can get this girl.
If you weren't so shy you could prove me wrong.
--gillion
P.S. Real Love makes one very, very, very bold.
Arch_Angel
July 8, 2004, 05:49 PM
P.S. Real Love makes one very, very, very bold.That I agree with. I have done things I wouldn't normally do if I wasn't in love.
Cocoa
July 19, 2004, 02:20 AM
I'm outspoken. Not a shy person except however in the first 5 minutes ther on after is history.
Nastro
July 19, 2004, 09:22 AM
So it basically takes you 5 minutes to get settled the get wild.
Cocoa
July 30, 2004, 09:53 PM
Not get wild.
Liquid Bunny
July 14, 2005, 04:06 AM
i am very vwery shy.. but for some strange reason every body disbelieves...go figure
acidblade
July 14, 2005, 07:01 AM
i'm shy around new girls :(. but once i get to know you, whoa beyond to you :icon_evil :icon_mrgr
LadyMC
July 14, 2005, 11:26 AM
I'm shy for the most part. Very reserved. I have to warm up to someone before i can let go of it.
I'm working on it though. I have made progress, so give it up for MC :eusa_clap
Bahama Mama
July 14, 2005, 11:31 AM
No, I am not shy.
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pogi_2nr
July 14, 2005, 11:56 AM
I hear shy guys get all the girls.
What causes shyness anyway, some chemical imbalance?
Manu
July 14, 2005, 12:52 PM
i am very vwery shy.. but for some strange reason every body disbelieves...go figure
Yup...me too...I create a suave facade that usually does all the talking for me...but i'm scared and shy to talk to new girls...yet i'm so confident.....what a callamity :eusa_thin
nuhsenutten
July 14, 2005, 01:11 PM
nuh really ......but it takes time for ppl to get to know me
pogi_2nr
July 14, 2005, 01:28 PM
nuhsenutten the enigma.
people dont understand me much either :(
babyj
July 14, 2005, 01:58 PM
well i'm shy at times. Even around my boyfriend some things i would never do like fart. lol
gucci man
July 14, 2005, 02:05 PM
I hear shy guys get all the girls.
What causes shyness anyway, some chemical imbalance?
a lie that. them get none!
gucci man
July 14, 2005, 02:06 PM
well i'm shy at times. Even around my boyfriend some things i would never do like fart. lol
lol
i'm the opposite. mi poup for the fun of it round my gf
acidblade
July 14, 2005, 02:09 PM
a lie that. them get none!
:eusa_naug joke yuh a mek yute
Bahama Mama
July 14, 2005, 02:09 PM
well i'm shy at times. Even around my boyfriend some things i would never do like fart. lol
That just has to do with couth and discretion.
pogi_2nr
July 14, 2005, 02:21 PM
well i'm shy at times. Even around my boyfriend some things i would never do like fart. lol
:eusa_clap good job :eusa_clap
No need to scare him away until you have him in wedlock.
Jaded_Angel
July 14, 2005, 02:41 PM
Foofing is so disgusting around others. That is a big turn off for me, even though i have to live with it from my father and brother. Sometimes i wonder what causes them to pass wind so loud.
You people have some strange names, Gucci Man. whats that suppose to mean?
pogi_2nr
July 14, 2005, 03:38 PM
foofing? :rotflm:
Gucci man? clearly that means he is a man who buys/wears/likes Gucci
Me now, I am more of a Christian Dior man or a Dolce and Gabbana on the weekends.
Malloc-X
July 14, 2005, 03:54 PM
I must confess that I don't think I have a shy bone in me anymore. I overcame a sense of shyness during my 6th form in high school and I think what helped is my developing a sense of confidence in myself. Of course this strategy alone won't work overnight but it slowly develops over time.
were there computers back then, u know when u were in sixth form
Cocoa
July 14, 2005, 06:10 PM
were there computers back then, u know when u were in sixth form :dwl: :rofl: :rotflm: this dude insinuating that Chris is old. woiiiiiiiiii-
icuucme
July 14, 2005, 09:53 PM
i am shy.................
Liquid Bunny
July 15, 2005, 12:34 AM
A joke i not shy .. i just choose when to be reserved...
Gwadinka
July 15, 2005, 03:49 AM
I am shy but as many shy ppl, I tend to be very extrovertto hide it and when ppl talk to me I talk too much or when I am in a completely unknown place then I just get back in my inner self like a snail.
Chicokid
July 16, 2005, 08:16 PM
A joke i not shy .. i just choose when to be reserved...
Same here with me :)
Nastro
July 16, 2005, 09:44 PM
A joke i not shy .. i just choose when to be reserved...
This usually means that you talk alot unless you upset or concentrating. :rolleyes:
Liquid Bunny
July 16, 2005, 11:33 PM
This usually means that you talk alot unless you upset or concentrating. :rolleyes:
lol... i have no comment @ this time :rolleyes:
Nastro do i know u? :eusa_shif
Kirby
July 17, 2005, 04:44 PM
How do u kno when u shy or not?
pogi_2nr
July 18, 2005, 09:24 AM
How do u kno when u shy or not?
A foolproof test is go up to a girl and cop a handfull :)
If you hesitate any then you suffer from said disease.
Regards,
Dr. Tuner.
nuhsenutten
July 18, 2005, 10:14 AM
pongi 2nr i dont think that would b a good idea.....u want the dude get chagred with harrasment.......nuh listen to him kirby
Kirby
July 18, 2005, 10:41 AM
any other way to find out then
pogi_2nr
July 18, 2005, 10:51 AM
Do you get embarrassed easily kirby?
nuhsenutten
July 18, 2005, 10:55 AM
what u have in mind ......look like u want to put the youngster up to something
Kirby
July 18, 2005, 10:57 AM
neva really been embrassed so i dont think so
pogi_2nr
July 18, 2005, 12:41 PM
being easily embarrassment is somewhat linked to being shy.
icuucme
July 18, 2005, 12:49 PM
Are you afraid to approach someone who u just meet and talk to them?
Kirby
July 18, 2005, 01:11 PM
proplaly il hang around them but not talk to them alot
icuucme
July 18, 2005, 01:15 PM
proplaly il hang around them but not talk to them alotOh...so u shy...:)
Read up on what is shyness here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shyness
pogi_2nr
July 18, 2005, 01:30 PM
Kirby: The best way to tell if one is shy or not is to compare oneself with a good definition of it.
From what I understand I would define shyness to be the feelings of discomfort in certain social situations.
These feeling my stem from the overanalysis of how other people perceive them and is usually aided with low
self-esteem.
icuucme
July 18, 2005, 02:15 PM
From what I understand I would define shyness to be the feelings of discomfort in certain social situations.
These feeling my stem from the overanalysis of how other people perceive them and is usually aided with low
self-esteem.yow pogi, which website u find that definition? :)..lol
nuhsenutten
July 18, 2005, 02:26 PM
him probly mek it uo to exclude himself.....lol:dwl:
j/k
Twinkie
July 18, 2005, 02:49 PM
him probly mek it uo to exclude himself.....lol:dwl:
j/k
ROF good one. He is somewhat right, but not all shyness is linked to Low selfesteem. Some people may just be so introvert, opening up to casual conversations takes them out of their comfort zone and they avoid that, at all costs.
pogi_2nr
July 18, 2005, 03:53 PM
I pulled it from my head son.
Kirby
July 19, 2005, 12:26 AM
still not sure if im shy or not........
Manu
July 19, 2005, 12:30 AM
/if you're wondering...chances are that you are infact shy because shyness is basically a lack of confidence and I don't see you showing any confidence by asking if you're shy. Granted this may be a wrong analysis but just calling it as I see it.
pogi_2nr
July 19, 2005, 09:45 AM
:eusa_wall :eusa_wall :eusa_wall kirby head well tough still.
Twinkie
July 19, 2005, 09:50 AM
How long Kirby, would you be hanging around someone before you opened up to them with conversation. If you going well pass a week or so, chances are...
If there's an open discussion and you just have no input whatsoever, because there are people in the conversation you're not close with, chances are
If you liking on a girl and ask your friend to put in a word for you two or three times, without doing so yourself, chances are...
Have you ever tried getting with any of the ladies in here?
tradag
July 19, 2005, 03:43 PM
me tradag is very shy when i see a girl that i really like i afraid to talk to her and im afraid to stand and do things in class and im shy to do alot of things
Liquid Bunny
July 19, 2005, 03:49 PM
me tradag is very shy when i see a girl that i really like i afraid to talk to her and im afraid to stand and do things in class and im shy to do alot of things
awww dats so cute. Dont worry about it u'll come around.
Manu
July 19, 2005, 03:57 PM
me tradag is very shy when i see a girl that i really like i afraid to talk to her and im afraid to stand and do things in class and im shy to do alot of things
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No TYPOS!!!!!
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tradag
July 19, 2005, 04:00 PM
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No TYPOS!!!!!
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why u say that, u like my writing
Liquid Bunny
July 19, 2005, 04:13 PM
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No TYPOS!!!!!
DWL Manu how u stay suh? :rofl: :rotflm:
Manu
July 19, 2005, 04:20 PM
why u say that, u like my writing
LOL.....you're writing is.....um.....uh....er.....hmm.....whats that word....hmm....ah yes.....interesting ;)
tradag
July 19, 2005, 04:20 PM
manu love laugh and they have a saying that man who love laugh have a love fe man
acidblade
July 19, 2005, 04:24 PM
manu love laugh and they have a saying that man who love laugh have a love fe man
my GOD!!!! :rofl: :rotflm: :dwl:
pogi_2nr
July 19, 2005, 04:30 PM
hmm tradog.. you are 15?
Dont worry, hopefully it will get better as you get older.(maybe when your balls drop)
Manu
July 19, 2005, 04:40 PM
manu love laugh and they have a saying that man who love laugh have a love fe man ooman
There.....that's better. :icon_mrgr
tradag
July 19, 2005, 04:43 PM
ooman what that mean a lot of man
Manu
July 19, 2005, 04:53 PM
ooman what that mean a lot of man
When you go back home tell mommy and daddy that it's time for that talk. Tell them all about the changes your little body is going through and tell them you want to hear about the birds and bees. That should answer all your question :icon_mrgr
Liquid Bunny
July 19, 2005, 04:55 PM
When you go back home tell mommy and daddy that it's time for that talk. Tell them all about the changes your little body is going through and tell them you want to hear about the birds and bees. That should answer all your question :icon_mrgr
dwl fool u tek da man foh.. Leave Tradag alone
tradag
July 19, 2005, 04:56 PM
i know ever thing about woman and man and i dont want to hear abouyt bees and birds
Kirby
July 19, 2005, 05:17 PM
How long Kirby, would you be hanging around someone before you opened up to them with conversation. If you going well pass a week or so, chances are...
no not that long problaly 2 days or somethin like that depends on who the person is gender wise and age wise....
If there's an open discussion and you just have no input whatsoever, because there are people in the conversation you're not close with, chances are
ill have input if there is a topic that im intreseted in or know about
If you liking on a girl and ask your friend to put in a word for you two or three times, without doing so yourself, chances are...
dont ask friends dont even tell them....dont talk to or hang around the grl either...
Have you ever tried getting with any of the ladies in here?
nope....
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