what do girls look for in a male?

[tradag]

what does jamaican girls look for in a male i knw that most of them look for money some becouse u have a car

[Mocha Chic]

I don't really consider myself to be picky, but I do want to be treated right. He doesn't have to wine and dine me .... if he does the little things, like call me and tell me that he's thinking of me, that just makes me turn to mush. I'm a sensitive person and so, I need a sensitive man. If a man is sensitive, he has my heart, because that is so rare to find.

I'm also attracted to intelligence. I want a man that reads the newspaper and knows what's going on in the world. If he has a good relationship with his family, that's another bonus. I'm at an age where personality and treatment is much more important than looks. I use to only want to date men that were Christian, but I've found out the hard way that that means absolutely nothing. And this is based on my experiences.

[tradag]

i am a boy i am a person who like to give a girl wat they want and comfert the and almost every thing i am a very jelous person and i a easy to get vex when u keep on doing some thing that i dont like

[nuhsenutten]

so mocha_ whats so bad bout christian men ................or they just behave the same way ? ........

ur kool......:) a down to earth girl................. ;)

[Drew]

good charolete have a nice song and i quote "girls don't like boys, girls like cars n money." may i recommend listening to that song.

ok, on a more serious note, you can't really say what girls look for in a guy cause every girl is gonna say something different. some might want a really nice guy, some might want a tuff guy, some might want a rich guy, some might want one thats good in the bed even though almost every woman will fall under that last category. but you see what i'm saying.

but if you want to sum it all up, most women just want a guy that will treat them well.

[Foxy Kay]

In my opinion, the little things that guys do are very important to me. I don't really care about the "big" things. I agree with Mocha Chic, but I don't want a man who is tooo sensitive ;) :).

[AngelsKiss]

what does jamaican girls look for in a male i knw that most of them look for money some becouse u have a car
That he is really a man and not a someone else in disguise pretending to be a man.

[foxybrown]

Women want a man that is respectful, honest and loyal. A woman wants a man to be just that, her man and not act like some child. Leave the male chauvinism behind and treat your woman as an EQUAL. MEN listen up..... a woman does not want a man to DOMINATE her!!! Also very important we(women) want a man that is educated can hold up an intelligent conversation and can speak articulately. Nothing wrong with the patois when you are among family and friends but learn to speak properly as well.

[Lisa20]

Women want a man that is respectful, honest and loyal. A woman wants a man to be just that, her man and not act like some child. Leave the male chauvinism behind and treat your woman as an EQUAL. MEN listen up..... a woman does not want a man to DOMINATE her!!! Also very important we(women) want a man that is educated can hold up an intelligent conversation and can speak articulately. Nothing wrong with the patois when you are among family and friends but learn to speak properly as well.

I agree with you completely. We do not want men who are boastful,undependable or lazy.

[nuhsenutten]

what about the guys who pretend to be all caring till they get what they want .....how do u girls differentiate between them and the real honest guys ?..........or can u tell the difference b4 its too late

[Lisa20]

what about the guys who pretend to be all caring till they get what they want .....how do u girls differentiate between them and the real honest guys ?..........or can u tell the difference b4 its too late


It is all the time that we can differentiate between the good guys and the bad guys, then there are other times when you tell straight off the bat. What do we do then, I guess we pick ourselves up, dust off dirt and move on. It's as simple as that. Cause if we start saying and asking questions like "why me" or "mi should a know" we will never move from that point.

It's like getting a car to move, without gas, key, parts
etc., it will never move from where we park it. :eusa_whis

Well a so mi see it :icon_lol:

[foxybrown]

what about the guys who pretend to be all caring till they get what they want .....how do u girls differentiate between them and the real honest guys ?..........or can u tell the difference b4 its too late

Well wen yu see di warning signs yu tek heed an pack up an leff di SOB

[little warchief]

I don't really consider myself to be picky, but I do want to be treated right. He doesn't have to wine and dine me ....


you sure about the wine :D :eusa_whis

[Blindz]

what about the guys who pretend to be all caring till they get what they want .....how do u girls differentiate between them and the real honest guys ?..........or can u tell the difference b4 its too late
good question, a dem man dey gi man like me bad name


I don't really consider myself to be picky, but I do want to be treated right. He doesn't have to wine and dine me ....
you sure about the wine :D :eusa_whis
boy chief, u couldn't leave it at the food, y u affi bring up the motion??

[Malloc-X]

I am a sweet, nice, intelligent guy, just aks my frenz

[Chicokid]

That's another thing girls look for :)

[Cocoa]

I am a sweet, nice, intelligent guy, just aks my frenzThese are just the basic (icing on the cake) for a guy to posses. What about the rest of the cake? :eusa_shif

[Master E]

Well Mi nuh know girls like me but all me can tell a humbry seh jus be yourself thats all simple

[Leina]

him haffi look decent cuz mi actually want fi walk wid him a day time. should be able to hold a decent conversation with me or any one of my frenz. oh an him haffi brown mi black enuff fi di two a wi

[Drew]

oh an him haffi brown mi black enuff fi di two a wii gave you props till i reached that part.

[Blindz]

oh an him haffi brown mi black enuff fi di two a wii gave you props till i reached that part.
y drew, she have her preference, she like di brownin dem den is dat she like

[Leina]

i gave you props till i reached that part.
no offense meant i LOVE black men but too much bad experience dem scare mi weh. and oh if u white mi no want you

[Cocoa]

no offense meant i LOVE black men but too much bad experience dem scare mi weh. and oh if u white mi no want you
Gees so harsh..... tek time wid de man dem fi mi noh please.

[Leina]

yeah i think i'll do that. maybe then i'll find someone who loves me for the person i am

[Manu]

and what person is that? What about what men want? Is not all of us want big battam and big breasts you know. Is unu alone a look?

[Mocha Chic]

What I look for doesn't exist. That's why I am and will remain single.

[Cocoa]

What I look for doesn't exist. That's why I am and will remain single.
don't exist? the qualities reside in an alien?/oh MOcha do tell. :D

[nuhsenutten]

geez a coulda wha u a look so fren :icon_eek: ?......mayb it will find u

unnu always a sey all the good men are taken yet if unnu nuh c di man wid a woman unnu nuh want him ........................y? :eusa_thin

[Cocoa]

geez a coulda wha u a look so fren :icon_eek: ?......mayb it will find u

unnu always a sey all the good men are taken yet if unnu nuh c di man wid a woman unnu nuh want him ........................y? :eusa_thinyes but not all single womanless men are good things to have....not because you and me single mean we must just jump on the bag wagon, their has got to be some standdards, attraction and apperance that I am looking for first.

[Master E]

What I look for doesn't exist. That's why I am and will remain single.
Yuh jus ah look inna di wrong places

[Bahama Mama]

him haffi look decent cuz mi actually want fi walk wid him a day time. should be able to hold a decent conversation with me or any one of my frenz. oh an him haffi brown mi black enuff fi di two a wi

:eusa_eh: You have to be able to love yourself before you can love anyone else. Its quite okay to have a preference for lighter skin men or 'brownings', but to base it on the fact that you are darker skin, implies that something is wrong with being darker skin.

[Bahama Mama]

As for me, a man (who I would consider as husband material) has to be:

honest (If I cant trust you I wont be with you)

hardworking

determined to get somewhere in life, and actively pursuing that

lives healthy, no smoking, no drinking or light social drinking, no drugs

he has to be fit physically (I love abs) and an active person, not a couch potato

I would really prefer if he was 6'3 minimum, but there are always exceptions

Can cook, beacause i dont intend to be in the kitchen 24/7

Loves to travel and see new places

Has a spiritual side to him

Has a sensitive side to him

Is great in bed (Good sex is not superficial in anyway)

Goodlooking, dont care the skin complexion (dark to light is fine with me, just control the acne :))


These are in no particular order by the way.

[Drew]

bahama mama, u keep it real, trust me.

[Leina]

:eusa_eh: You have to be able to love yourself before you can love anyone else. Its quite okay to have a preference for lighter skin men or 'brownings', but to base it on the fact that you are darker skin, implies that something is wrong with being darker skin.
i was only joking about the last time if you saw me you would be saying that i was unfortunate enough for three of my grandparents to be mulattos so everyone thinks i'm St. Elizabeth (you know that little rumor bout st.Elizabeth ppl)

[Precious]

i was only joking about the last time if you saw me you would be saying that i was unfortunate enough for three of my grandparents to be mulattos so everyone thinks i'm St. Elizabeth (you know that little rumor bout st.Elizabeth ppl)

Actually no.... What rumor? :confused:

[Leina]

Actually no.... What rumor? :confused:
well up my way (in manchester) ppl believe that as long as you are lightskinned, brown or whatever they call it you mus come from st.elizabeth. thats' what the believe

[nuhsenutten]

never heard that before
.......................
:icon_eek:

[Leina]

never heard that before
.......................
:icon_eek:
well you come from mobay you wyd not hear this plus you mus be too busy to hear dem tings deh newayz

[Precious]

Well i can prove the rumors wroung. I'm originally from St Bess and i'm dark!!! :)

[Cocoa]

Lawd gad...mi can't believe seh people tink seh a certain parish have darker and lighter skin people...uno serious?

[Leina]

Lawd gad...mi can't believe seh people tink seh a certain parish have darker and lighter skin people...uno serious?
big and serious if u r a 'browning' then jus come mandeville and you will that som ediat wi ask u dat

[nuhsenutten]

mi neva kno sey dem foolishness de a gwaan a JA :(

[Manu]

LOL....kinda like "if you're brown and have cooley hair you in Jacks Hill, Norbrook, Cherry Gardens......just up north" That one seems to be true though!

[Leina]

LOL....kinda like "if you're brown and have cooley hair you in Jacks Hill, Norbrook, Cherry Gardens......just up north" That one seems to be true though!
so are you saying that if you go downtown you won't find ppl like that. and aren't there black ppl living there too

[Leina]

anyways after doing some serious thinking i have come to the conclusion that any guy who can put up with me for a week is good enough for me

[Manu]

so are you saying that if you go downtown you won't find ppl like that. and aren't there black ppl living there too

Nope...but most times that is when uptown mix with downtown....either the downtown have a child for the uptown man....or the uptown man/woman tek een the downtown man/woman....or they are street pharmacists that can afford to live up north. all in all...there are exceptions to every rule...this is a general one!

[Leina]

Nope...but most times that is when uptown mix with downtown....either the downtown have a child for the uptown man....or the uptown man/woman tek een the downtown man/woman....or they are street pharmacists that can afford to live up north. all in all...there are exceptions to every rule...this is a general one!
oh i hear you dear but i still think think that it is stupid to generalize

[Leina]

cuz look at it this way mi "brown" have "puss eye" and red hair an mi born an grow a manchester and none a mi family nuh come from St. Elizabeth

[Manu]

Oh dear....exceptions to every rule hun....doesn't mean all are like that but in most cases...that is so......

[Leina]

Oh dear....exceptions to every rule hun....doesn't mean all are like that but in most cases...that is so......
ok sir mi nah run you down you are entitled to your opinion

[Manu]

LOL...you cool still...mi ago put up wid yu for the one week:p (Cocoa kibba yu mouth:icon_lol:

[Master E]

Yuh tell Cocoa fi kibba har mouth but yuh neva tell mi...
It look like Leina an Manu wa'an fi hit it off.

A tink dem should have a Bedroom forum



Yuh nuh agree wid mi?

[Cocoa]

Yuh tell Cocoa fi kibba har mouth but yuh neva tell mi...
It look like Leina an Manu wa'an fi hit it off.

A tink dem should have a Bedroom forum



Yuh nuh agree wid mi?I agreed long time more like a "relationship" one.....

dwl :icon_lol: :icon_lol: buss him yah E.

[Manu]

LOL.....mi faithful to my babes...and Leina and I have spoken off-air and she knows that I'm very much taken. Plus a brown man she like!:p

[Leina]

LOL.....mi faithful to my babes...and Leina and I have spoken off-air and she knows that I'm very much taken. Plus a brown man she like!:p
lol law manu you haffi mek mi look so bad i like black men too

[Cocoa]

LOL.....mi faithful to my babes...and Leina and I have spoken off-air and she knows that I'm very much taken. Plus a brown man she like!:p
Every where you go you declare you relationship...not like nutn wrong. You need to mek a Declaration of Yu Babes and put it in you signature and every one will know you are married, taken, engaged, involved, loved, appreciated and you have a hot gyal...so everyone can back off. :rolleyes:

I know you know I am just trubbling yu. ;)

[Chicokid]

Every where you go you declare you relationship...not like nutn wrong. You need to mek a Declaration of Yu Babes and put it in you signature and every one will know you are married, taken, engaged, involved, loved, appreciated and you have a hot gyal...so everyone can back off. :rolleyes:

I know you know I am just trubbling yu. ;)

A ring or chain could be a start :)

[Cocoa]

A ring or chain could be a start :)YES that too but him need fi do weh mi seh cause a bear a "im married " him talk bout. :rolleyes:

[Leina]

A ring or chain could be a start :)

nuh come wid no chain argument give her a ring i nice gold one no gold filled believe mi she will know if it no real

[Manu]

a wah dis fadder? LOL..cocoa...mi and yu criss caan dun!
Fuss mi inna soemthing so good so yes...mi a gladdiss....so wah?! LOL...

I working on the ring.....

[Leina]

a wah dis fadder? LOL..cocoa...mi and yu criss caan dun!
Fuss mi inna soemthing so good so yes...mi a gladdiss....so wah?! LOL...

I working on the ring.....

alright jus memba mi invitation a long time mi nuh go a one wedding

[Manu]

How you one wah go suh mcuh wedding so? LOL...yea man....i will!

[Leina]

How you one wah go suh mcuh wedding so? LOL...yea man....i will!

alright sah u betta mek sure cuz mi wi fine it an crash it if u 4get fi invite mi

[Greatis]

Ok so this will be the Afternoon Soap.

Manu and the Chain.

Evening Soap would be

Leina and the Weddings.

[Cocoa]

Ok so this will be the Afternoon Soap.

Manu and the Chain.

Evening Soap would be

Leina and the Weddings.yu a str8 mix up... :rolleyes: :cool:

[Xenocrates]

You guys have a remarkable talent for drifting off-topic. http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/nope.gif

...and I know who's fault it is. Anywayz... In relation to the question that started the thread, it depends on the age of the girl you ask.

Young women can be so fickle. I prefer to wait until a woman hits 24 - 25 before I ask her what she looks for in a guy. Otherwise you hear all kinds of nonsense. Much of it driven by innate desires relative to the mood she's in at the instant she was asked. Ask her next week and it's a different story. Maybe that's why I prefer certain types of women - AngelsKiss knows what I mean. ;)

Younger girls have too much of that tenacity to have a "flavour of the week". It's so annoying. It's like the synapses in their brain haven't finished bonding since they were 2 years old. It's better to see if she likes you than to ask what she wants - esp if she's fairly young. Most young girls have asbsolutely no idea what they want - in men or otherwise. You guys would be better off asking more seasoned, mature women that question - at least until the young girls make up their minds. ;)

I salute you gals on the board who are 25+. Rock on http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/thumb.gif

[AngelsKiss]

You guys have a remarkable talent for drifting off-topic. http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/nope.gif

...and I know who's fault it is. Anywayz... In relation to the question that started the thread, it depends on the age of the girl you ask.

Young women can be so fickle. I prefer to wait until a woman hits 24 - 25 before I ask her what she looks for in a guy. Otherwise you hear all kinds of nonsense. Much of it driven by innate desires relative to the mood she's in at the instant she was asked. Ask her next week and it's a different story. Maybe that's why I prefer certain types of women - AngelsKiss knows what I mean. ;)


Oh sheesh Xeno, I know no such thing http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_1_33.gif

[Xenocrates]

LMBO - Ofcourse you don't! ;)

[Cocoa]

I salute you gals on the board who are 25+. Rock on http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/thumb.gif
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v391/althethe/twak.gifwhy are you only talking about young women although it is your preference? I am below 25 and I assure you I am not fickle.

[AngelsKiss]

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v391/althethe/twak.gifwhy are you only talking about young women although it is your preference? I am below 25 and I assure you I am not fickle.

LMBO...hHere Cocoa...do what you will will with this:
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/14/14_4_103.gif

[Cocoa]

fix the image...i have no clue.

[AngelsKiss]

LMBO - Ofcourse you don't! ;)
I am innocent, I tell you it wasn't me ;)

[Bahama Mama]

You guys have a remarkable talent for drifting off-topic. http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/nope.gif

...and I know who's fault it is. Anywayz... In relation to the question that started the thread, it depends on the age of the girl you ask.

Young women can be so fickle. I prefer to wait until a woman hits 24 - 25 before I ask her what she looks for in a guy. Otherwise you hear all kinds of nonsense. Much of it driven by innate desires relative to the mood she's in at the instant she was asked. Ask her next week and it's a different story. Maybe that's why I prefer certain types of women - AngelsKiss knows what I mean. ;)

Younger girls have too much of that tenacity to have a "flavour of the week". It's so annoying. It's like the synapses in their brain haven't finished bonding since they were 2 years old. It's better to see if she likes you than to ask what she wants - esp if she's fairly young. Most young girls have asbsolutely no idea what they want - in men or otherwise. You guys would be better off asking more seasoned, mature women that question - at least until the young girls make up their minds. ;)

I salute you gals on the board who are 25+. Rock on http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/thumb.gif


So should women under 25 be considered brain dead or something. Humans in general are dynamic creatures, and our experiences which often change and increase with age, shape our preferences and standards particularly when it comes to choosing a mate or companion. To ask a 19 year old what she wants in a man, albeit it may sometimes be superficial, it is as genuine as her current experience. Ten years later she may want something completely different, and ten years after that something else. To ask a 35 year old the same question, one more than likely will get a completely different response. Once again it is all shaped by experiences, and that is what years on this earth bring.


As well age does not often correlate with maturity.


But women in general are moody, cheerful one day, and the next they have PMS and a gun. We are controlled by a myriad of hormones, what can I say.

Dont underestimate we young folk,we know alot more than people would like to give us credit for.

[AngelsKiss]

So should women under 25 be considered brain dead or something. Humans in general are dynamic creatures, and our experiences which often change and increase with age, shape our preferences and standards particularly when it comes to choosing a mate or companion. To ask a 19 year old what she wants in a man, albeit it may sometimes be superficial, it is as genuine as her current experience. Ten years later she may want something completely different, and ten years after that something else. To ask a 35 year old the same question, one more than likely will get a completely different response. Once again it is all shaped by experiences, and that is what years on this earth bring.


As well age does not often correlate with maturity.


But women in general are moody, cheerful one day, and the next they have PMS and a gun. We are controlled by a myriad of hormones, what can I say.

Dont underestimate we young folk,we know alot more than people would like to give us credit for.

Lord help us, Xeno why did you have to go open pandora's box?:)

Actually you are right that humans are dynamic, and I also have to say that many of the younger folkes are less mature, it's not just women. I think what it boils down to is preference and I think for Xeno and some young men they prefer older women, so you younger folkes don't get too upset :D

[Bahama Mama]

Lord help us, Xeno why did you have to go open pandora's box?:)

Actually you are right that humans are dynamic, and I also have to say that many of the younger folkes are less mature, it's not just women. I think what it boils down to is preference and I think for Xeno and some young men they prefer older women, so you younger folkes don't get too upset :D


Well lets say preference then. I too prefer older men, but not at the discreditment of younger men.

[Xenocrates]

Lord help us, Xeno why did you have to go open pandora's box?

- You know me AK. I love to rock the boat. Being monotonously altruistic is so predictable and boring. Y'know what I mean? ;)

:icon_arro Bahama Mama

- I agree with you 100%. But, I find it dreadfully annoying when a woman changes her mind every 5 minutes. It's one of my pet peeves *adds it to volume 3 list*. I prefer when a woman knows exactly what she's about. I'm not exactly expecting that at age 15. But by age 21 you should have a clue. At least, I think so. Then again, there are those who are too high on life to think straight. I don't mind a lass being high on life. But I prefer if she had some sense of direction as well. Usually, that includes knowing what kinda guys she likes. Girls like that remind me of Paris Hilton - and Paris Hilton doesn't sit well with me. Yu zimi?

:icon_arro Cocoa

- Wut you worrying bout? 25 is not an approximation. Some girls mature faster than others. It's relative to your upbringing. I wouldn't figure you to be someone under 25 still.... that's interesting to know. :icon_mrgr

[Cocoa]

:icon_arro Cocoa

- Wut you worrying bout? 25 is not an approximation. Some girls mature faster than others. It's relative to your upbringing. I wouldn't figure you to be someone under 25 still.... that's interesting to know. :icon_mrgr
Really?? Well you would be surprised to know the many things about me ....in fact I find intelligent men like yourself intriguing and attractive with lots of sex appeal. So I have been watching you longer than you think or know..... :cool:

Well lets say preference then. I too prefer older men, but not at the discreditment of younger men.
I feel the same way. :icon_redf

[AngelsKiss]

Really?? Well you would be surprised to know the many things about me ....in fact I find intelligent men like yourself intriguing and attractive with lots of sex appeal. So I have been watching you longer than you think or know..... :cool:
LMBO...take it to the Flirting thread you 2 :)

[Cocoa]

LMBO...take it to the Flirting thread you 2 :)Yes, but I was just stating some of the qualities I look for in a grown man.

[Xenocrates]

eeer..... aaaaahhh.... http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/riiight.gif ehehehee...

I prefer to flirt offline and in person. Seeing the reaction on her face is worth the price of admission alone. I don't particularly like that cyber-thing... I'll leave that to Greatis and Lisa20. :icon_mrgr

[AngelsKiss]

Yes, but I was just stating some of the qualities I look for in a grown man.


So I have been watching you longer than you think or know.....

This would suggest otherwise :icon_mrgr

[Cocoa]

stop mix mi up.........:D

[AngelsKiss]

stop mix mi up.........:D
Sorry...you did it to youself :p :icon_mrgr

[Greatis]

Watch ya Xeno a run from it nuh badda wid it Xeno stand up like a man an prove yuh self. :D

So angel is this like Boe and Hope in Days of our Lives :D :D :D

[AngelsKiss]

Watch ya Xeno a run from it nuh badda wid it Xeno stand up like a man an prove yuh self. :D

So angel is this like Boe and Hope in Days of our Lives :D
LMBO....http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_12_6.gif


It look suh right?;)

[AngelsKiss]

Watch ya Xeno a run from it nuh badda wid it Xeno stand up like a man an prove yuh self. :D


I think he fell asleep at the computer or is he with Hope? ;)

[Cocoa]

AK and Greatis are CY's 2 mix and up an blenda folks...Buddy and Clive.;)

[AngelsKiss]

AK and Greatis are CY's 2 mix and up an blenda folks...Buddy and Clive.;)
LOL...Not me nor Greatis, we just call em as we see em, right Greatis? ;)

Ain't it strange though that we haven't heard from Xeno in a while?:)

Hope...er...Cocoa, what did you do with Xeno?:)

[Xenocrates]

I'm riiiiight here! Haven't Gone anywhere! She hasn't done anything to me! And vice versa!

[AngelsKiss]

I'm riiiiight here! Haven't Gone anywhere! She hasn't done anything to me! And vice versa!
Sure and we are gonna believe that right Greatis? ;) :p

[Greatis]

hehe Yup we just call it as we see it. What AK they would want us to mum nuh true. Keep it on the downlow. No sah unoo should bring ti on the forum then hehe :D

[AngelsKiss]

hehe Yup we just call it as we see it. What AK they would want us to mum nuh true. Keep it on the downlow. No sah unoo should bring ti on the forum then hehe :D
...and it's not even us who started it:

Bo: I wouldn't figure you to be someone under 25 still.... that's interesting to know.
Hope: Really?? Well you would be surprised to know the many things about me ....in fact I find intelligent men like yourself intriguing and attractive with lots of sex appeal. So I have been watching you longer than you think or know

Lol...our words condem..er... betray us:)

[Xenocrates]

WTF?! HTF?! Hreh?! But wait? A scandal unna waa scandal I? Mine unno self! I lawyer is quite trigger happy! ;)

[Cocoa]

Greatis and AngelKiss....str8:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v391/althethe/blenda.jpg
mix up an blenda

[AngelsKiss]

Greatis and AngelKiss....str8:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v391/althethe/blenda.jpg
Wooohooo fruits are sweet and juicy, thanks for telling us we sweet and juicy :)

[Xenocrates]

You guys are hilarious. :D And here I was thinking that I had a sense of humor. :D

[Greatis]

Just kool nuh Xeno humour makes the day man.

[Xenocrates]

*phew!* that was close... http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/riiight.gif

[AngelsKiss]

*phew!* that was close... http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/riiight.gif
LOL... Think you are out of the woods huh? Greatis and I decided to give you and Hope a break, right G?:)

[Greatis]

Yup That's right Angel. But guess what we will be seeing them again after all they are now officially apart of CaribYard's Lives Night time soap. :D

[AngelsKiss]

Yup That's right Angel. But guess what we will be seeing them again after all they are now officially apart of CaribYard's Lives Night time soap. :D
LMBO....yeah, tune in ppl for the next episode of CaribYard Nighttime Lovers... Cocoa decides to take a trip to Jamaica to see if Xeno is really serious about their committment...meanwhile Xeno has been.... ;)

[Greatis]

LMBO....yeah, tune in ppl for the next episode of CaribYard Nighttime Lovers... Cocoa decides to take a trip to Jamaica to see if Xeno is really serious about their committment...meanwhile Xeno has been.... ;)

Hahaha Hey you write a damn good script. :D

[AngelsKiss]

Hahaha Hey you write a damn good script. :D
Maybe I could go in the business huh?...Writting about Xeno and Cocoa ;)

[Manu]

Xeno and Cocoa.....????

I better not change the channel!
*grabs popcorn*

[Cocoa]

Off topic guys and gyal. The thread needs to split.

[AngelsKiss]

Off topic guys and gyal. The thread needs to split.
Move it to the Flirting thread :)

[Cocoa]

Move it to the Flirting thread :)
No..needs to be a threa dof its own aparently..no flirting here.

[AngelsKiss]

Men that do not wear ear ring:) I hate it when men wear ear ring.

Oh I also hate it when they wear these big pants with the crotch down to their knees :icon_twis

[Manu]

Men that do not wear ear ring:) I hate it when men wear ear ring.

I agree...God gave us all the holes we need!!!

Oh I also hate it when they wear these big pants with the crotch down to their knees :icon_twis
Maybe they need more....er....space;) I for one need large crotched pants:eusa_whis

[Bahama Mama]

Well talking about pants and guys. I dont like to see a man in extremely tight pants. You need room to breathe and there is a link between sterility and tight pants in men.

[AngelsKiss]

Well talking about pants and guys. I dont like to see a man in extremely tight pants. You need room to breathe and there is a link between sterility and tight pants in men.
Plus it looks darn weird:)

[Manu]

LOL....I have a friend who wears extremely tight pants. I mean....painted on!! He was with his girlfriend at some sports link up. Things got heavy and he got aroused. LOL....dude couldn't even...yah know.....because there was no room. We decided to walk from Cross Roads to Half Way Tree(about 2 miles)...and the whole time he had to be walking like a cowboy...lol.


One question though ladies....what you think about guys with back dimples???

[Bahama Mama]

One question though ladies....what you think about guys with back dimples???


Umm I have never seen a guy with back dimples, I didnt even know you could get dimples in you back :confused:

[Cocoa]

Yu lie eeh Cross Road to Half Way Tree a more than 2 miles. lol A no mi neva see no man wid black dimples.

[Gwadinka]

Can someone explain to the naive French gyal what back dimples are, pliz?

Anyway, I'd like my man to be:
-taller than me, that would be really nice and 'twould prevent some embarrassing moments
-smart enough to have a good sense of humour and to have serious, funny, weird, crazy conv with me :)
-able to stand for his opinions
-has to know where he wants to go, even if the path seems tough
- open minded
-nice
-respectuous
-caring
-loving
-a good dancer, ;) I don't know if all girls believe that but dancing for me is a hint for other things
-able to boost, support, calm, protect me
-able to surprise me
-music lover and a nice smile. :icon_mrgr like this one


That's what I look for in a man, as for his physical look I don't really care providing that he respects the basic rules of hygiene of course, he can have dread locks, a shiny bald head.....he can have earrings, necklaces.... piercings, tattoos but not too many. As long as he knows their importance and their meaning, the reasons why he did it...even if I don't like them I think that they are part of him and make him the man I love, my man.

:) Does any of you know that kind of guy? If so my phone number is 06......

[Drew]

Can someone explain to the naive French gyal what back dimples are, pliz? its two sinks (like face dimples) at the top of each buttock.

[Precious]

I think its really sexxxy ;) :icon_redf :D :eusa_droo

[Leina]

Can someone explain to the naive French gyal what back dimples are, pliz?

Anyway, I'd like my man to be:
-taller than me, that would be really nice and 'twould prevent some embarrassing moments
-smart enough to have a good sense of humour and to have serious, funny, weird, crazy conv with me :)
-able to stand for his opinions
-has to know where he wants to go, even if the path seems tough
- open minded
-nice
-respectuous
-caring
-loving
-a good dancer, ;) I don't know if all girls believe that but dancing for me is a hint for other things
-able to boost, support, calm, protect me
-able to surprise me
-music lover and a nice smile. :icon_mrgr like this one


That's what I look for in a man, as for his physical look I don't really care providing that he respects the basic rules of hygiene of course, he can have dread locks, a shiny bald head.....he can have earrings, necklaces.... piercings, tattoos but not too many. As long as he knows their importance and their meaning, the reasons why he did it...even if I don't like them I think that they are part of him and make him the man I love, my man.

:) Does any of you know that kind of guy? If so my phone number is 06......

yup we are more or less on the same wavelength but mi nuh want no rasta or persons with dread lock mi fraid a it i have nothing against them but mi jus fraid a di hair

[Bahama Mama]

I like a man that takes pride in himself, No sloppy Joes please! I have seen some women that are married to utter slobs. They are unkept, and unclean. There is a saying, only a nasty woman would be with a nasty man and vice versa!

[Master E]

I like a man that takes pride in himself, No sloppy Joes please! I have seen some women that are married to utter slobs. They are unkept, and unclean. There is a saying, only a nasty woman would be with a nasty man and vice versa!
Im Clean! Are you clean [Rhetorical Question]

[Manu]

I have back dimples.......just wondered it it's sexy...ofcourse you'll only see it after a basket ball match when i lose my shirt or if you come over and I decide it's too hot to wear a shirt.....only other way.....only my gf knows;)

[Ricky]

yup we are more or less on the same wavelength but mi nuh want no rasta or persons with dread lock mi fraid a it i have nothing against them but mi jus fraid a di hair


Every hoe have dem stick a bush, I guess somebody mus love rasta cause dem seeem to have more pickney dan anybody else. :icon_lol:

Jah! :icon_mrgr

[dtgo]

and i thought the back dimples were ugly , .............guess i have something 2 be proud of :D

[Precious]

and i thought the back dimples were ugly , .............guess i have something 2 be proud of :D

You do :o ? How comes i've never seen them before? :confused: ;)

[dtgo]

You do :o ? How comes i've never seen them before? :confused: ;)

thats because i dnt walk around without a shirt, u can see it if u want :D

if u serious

[Leina]

Every hoe have dem stick a bush, I guess somebody mus love rasta cause dem seeem to have more pickney dan anybody else. :icon_lol:

Jah! :icon_mrgr

how true, how true! left up to me, they wud not have any!

[Ricky]

how true, how true! left up to me, they wud not have any!

Is a good ting seh me a rasta inna mi heart or else nuff people woulda have mi off eh? Mi woulda haffi find a true rasta empress. :eusa_whis

[Leina]

Is a good ting seh me a rasta inna mi heart or else nuff people woulda have mi off eh? Mi woulda haffi find a true rasta empress. :eusa_whis

mi nuh nuttin against them i just don't want them too near mi, because i stop breathing and that'll spell disaster. plus you have some who look like seh dem fraid a water and soap

[Cocoa]

What I look for in a male?

~someone who believes in God, if not a christian
~someone with good communication skills, basically, capable of carrying on an intelligent conversation.
~someone who is mature and ambitious. He knows where he is going, who he is and what he needs to do to get there.
~someone who is preferably taller than I am but not a requirement.
~he must be good to look at at least, if not handsome.
~someone who is caring, loving, gentle and not a buttu.
~ I do like someone with a sense of humor that can have me laughing even at the smallest things.
~ I also like someone who doesn't smoke, or drink alot.
~someone who is heterosexual.
~I also perfer someone who is good with money and not a spend drift.
~ I admire a praying man and one who worships God.

If I think of anything else, I'll come back.

[nuhsenutten]

so a cocoa alone want somebody ....mek we hear wha di rest of the females in the place want.............or unnu find already?

[dtgo]

so a cocoa alone want somebody ....mek we hear wha di rest of the females in the place want.............or unnu find already?
:D

HELLO LADIES SAY SUM TIN NUH

[Leina]

simple i want someone that share my beliefs and someone who can put up with me, if i can find that i'll be more than happy

[Manu]

~someone who is heterosexual.
DWL....i think that is a given my dear....wah yu woulda a do wid him if him funny?:eusa_eh:

So anymore takers on what makes a man A MAN to them?

Liena...yours is too vague...I can share your beliefs and tolerate you...desn't mean we could hook up. Be more specific....what tickles your fancy?!

[Leina]

DWL....i think that is a given my dear....wah yu woulda a do wid him if him funny?:eusa_eh:

So anymore takers on what makes a man A MAN to them?

Liena...yours is too vague...I can share your beliefs and tolerate you...desn't mean we could hook up. Be more specific....what tickles your fancy?!

a guy who understands me (like my bestfriend)
who share my religious beliefs (like my bestfriend)
and sum1 who can put up with mi when mi ready fi cuss an miserable

is the specific enuff

[Cocoa]

a guy who understands me (like my bestfriend)
who share my religious beliefs (like my bestfriend)
and sum1 who can put up with mi when mi ready fi cuss an miserable

is the specific enuffI think you in love wid yu bestfren :eusa_thin

[Leina]

I think you in love wid yu bestfren :eusa_thin

well............i'm not sure i might be but he said that i don't need or want any man in my life now, so i guess that includes him

[Cocoa]

well............i'm not sure i might be but he said that i don't need or want any man in my life now, so i guess that includes him :eusa_thin then he is trying to keep you lock for himself for future use.

[Leina]

:eusa_thin then he is trying to keep you lock for himself for future use.
lol i never thought of it that way i must ask him although i know what he will say already :rolleyes:

[chany86]

i think physically, gurls are less piky than guys.

then again:

As long as u dont look weed out...thas a plus for me.
As long as you dont approach me with "pssst...baby u fat enuh"
As long as you dont have cavities (fillings are ok- it shows u cared enuf to fix the problem) and bad teeth or breath
As long as you not a drug dealer...
As long as you're a Christian (i mean if ure heart TRULY follows Christ then all the personality traits will fall in place)
That last one is the most important to me

[Leina]

i think physically, gurls are less piky than guys.

then again:

As long as u dont look weed out...thas a plus for me.
As long as you dont approach me with "pssst...baby u fat enuh"
As long as you dont have cavities (fillings are ok- it shows u cared enuf to fix the problem) and bad teeth or breath
As long as you not a drug dealer...
As long as you're a Christian (i mean if ure heart TRULY follows Christ then all the personality traits will fall in place)
That last one is the most important to me
vonerful yeah man all that an more

[dtgo]

it should be hard just to give a woman all that she wants is it? as long as u can manage it , do it! :D

[Manu]

women, like men.....are hard to satisfy.....maybe it should be thought of as who can keep them distracted long enough....lol