have you ever been in love with you bestfriend?

[Leina]

have you ever been in love with your bestfriend and he/she always have some girl/boyfriend who eva a stress him/her then a you end up haffi a comfort him and pray seh him finally notice you. or if you do tell him how you feel him laugh an tell you se fi stop fun joke with him.

[Cocoa]

LOL No never happen to me. My good friends are married males or females. So what you planning on doing now since him finally noticed you?

[Leina]

him notice me that will be the day he's is always saying "you are such a good friend" and that why mi rate u so much. It's like i'm one of his guy frenz

[ArchNemesis]

what u need to do is give him the gift of missing you. The trouble is that you are always there for him so there is no reason for him to make the effort to notice you. Start improving your life then he'll see the value of what he had all along.

[Blindz]

lol, I know the feeling, but then just look at it as if something were to go down between the 2 of u and u fall out, then after the relationship dun and gone it would feel a way wen talking to him and the friendship may come to an end, so u'll have to think about the consequences of him noticing u the way u want him to and hope that he does.

[Leina]

what u need to do is give him the gift of missing you. The trouble is that you are always there for him so there is no reason for him to make the effort to notice you. Start improving your life then he'll see the value of what he had all along.

i never looked at it that way i might just do that thanks

[Leina]

lol, I know the feeling, but then just look at it as if something were to go down between the 2 of u and u fall out, then after the relationship dun and gone it would feel a way wen talking to him and the friendship may come to an end, so u'll have to think about the consequences of him noticing u the way u want him to and hope that he does.

that's true i guess i'm just jealous of him

[Mellicia Joseph]

:eusa_thin Yes And It Is Very Hard To Ingore. We Were Both Interested In Each Other But Both Of Us Had Different Relationship. :eusa_pray

[Leina]

:eusa_thin Yes And It Is Very Hard To Ingore. We Were Both Interested In Each Other But Both Of Us Had Different Relationship. :eusa_pray

dat have you. he has a girlfriend and the only tthing he want to talk about is her, how smart she is........ :rolleyes: i mean i feel as if mi could a just lick him sometimes :icon_evil

[pink obsession]

yeah, I have . In fact I think we will be married one day, but till then I'm sticking with just being friends because I dont want to start it now and it ends. and even if we end up with separate partners in the end, i will still love him.

[Leina]

yeah, I have . In fact I think we will be married one day, but till then I'm sticking with just being friends because I dont want to start it now and it ends. and even if we end up with separate partners in the end, i will still love him.

i love your reasoning i really do, you are a REALLY smart girl.

[Cocoa]

WELCOME to all the new comers in this thread........please come again. :)

[g2cris]

I have never been in love with a best freind. No Rasta.

[Greatis]

hmmmm in love well let's say I really like her but it won't work. When she finally acknowledged me We both decided that it would not work. But now I am wondering if that was the right decision. hmmmm ...

[Manu]

Yup....yup yup yup......but then after we got together....it turned into pure passion and man did we exploit it.....we're now still good friends....but its all left as a memory....or memories.

[Master E]

Sorry to hear
But that will never happen to me

[Chicokid]

Yup....yup yup yup......but then after we got together....it turned into pure passion and man did we exploit it.....we're now still good friends....but its all left as a memory....or memories.

Sounds like what happen to me too

[Leina]

Sorry to hear
But that will never happen to me
never say never that's what i said & look on me now

[Precious]

Well.... uh.... considering that my bestfriend is a girl i wont fall "IN" love with her but i do love her. Maybe when i get a little too curious and want to experiment then it will definitely be her :icon_twis :p

[Cocoa]

Well.... uh.... considering that my bestfriend is a girl i wont fall "IN" love with her but i do love her. Maybe when i get a little too curious and want to experiment then it will definitely be her :icon_twis :p :eusa_thin don't even think about it....it might happen so throw that thought out the window. :rolleyes:

[Precious]

:eusa_thin don't even think about it....it might happen so throw that thought out the window. :rolleyes:

I'm a girl so... i cant take her home with me and say " hey mom meet my wife"
is a machete mi woulda get inna mi head. :D

[Cocoa]

I'm a girl so... i cant take her home with me and say " hey mom meet my wife"
is a machete mi woulda get inna mi head. :Dswwwooosh thank God you ain't had me worried there.

[Precious]

If i was a guy i wouldnt play my bestfriend like that :)

[Drew]

my girlfriend is by far my best friend. so tomato tomata for me.

[Leina]

my girlfriend is by far my best friend. so tomato tomata for me.
lucky you some people have no such luck

[Leina]

If i was a guy i wouldnt play my bestfriend like that :)
what do you mean by that

[Drew]

lucky you some people have no such luckthats wat i've quickly learnt.

[Leina]

thats wat i've quickly learnt.
what have you learnt, that i have no luck at all

[Precious]

what do you mean by that

If i was a guy and i had girl best friend i would play aroud with her feelings. :icon_excl

[Leina]

If i was a guy and i had girl best friend i would play aroud with her feelings. :icon_excl
oh i see what you are saying mam

[nuhsenutten]

one of my best friends is a girl but mi couldnt see my self playing with her feelings .......mi would feel bad after.............and probly loose a good friend in the process

[Drew]

that i'm more fortunate with my girlfriend than i ever thought.

[Manu]

my girlfriend is by far my best friend. so tomato tomata for me.]

Yup....them levels deh mi reach now. Vice versa too! It feels good doesn't it?!

[Drew]

It feels good doesn't it?!it feels very good indeed.

[Precious]

Leina-- Do you really "BITE"? :icon_twis :D

[Leina]

Leina-- Do you really "BITE"? :icon_twis :D
yup why you ask, i'm not a very nice person

[nuhsenutten]

yow a sho u a sho off pon di rest a we drew an manu

[Leina]

yow a sho u a sho off pon di rest a we drew an manu
here here not because we are as lucky as you

[Precious]

yup why you ask, i'm not a very nice person

Well my mind got a little carried away... and your avatar didnt help :D

[Drew]

i was hoping u guys wouldn't think so. no my intentions aren't to show off, but to respond to the thread.

[nuhsenutten]

everyting good mi just joking around ....nuh feel no way yute :icon_lol:

[Leina]

Well my mind got a little carried away... and your avatar didnt help :D
naughty, naughty, naughty did you go to an all girl school? cuz a only dem think so i should know i went to one

[Gwadinka]

My best friend now is the guy I loved crazily for two yrs, but now we're just friends and that's cool for both of us. Many ppl still believe that we will end up together but I know him too much

[Leina]

My best friend now is the guy I loved crazily for two yrs, but now we're just friends and that's cool for both of us. Many ppl still believe that we will end up together but I know him too much
a bet u still love him and he loves you but you guys are just waiting for the right time then you'll get married. thats soo sweet

[Gwadinka]

Really Leina, I don't know :eusa_thin .....
At times I really think that it'll be great to end up with him because he's really a great man simply but at times,....it's strange I realize how different we are about many important subjects to me but we'll see. Anyway, if we do end up marrying, I'll let ya know. ;)

[Leina]

Really Leina, I don't know :eusa_thin .....
At times I really think that it'll be great to end up with him because he's really a great man simply but at times,....it's strange I realize how different we are about many important subjects to me but we'll see. Anyway, if we do end up marrying, I'll let ya know. ;)
k just remember my invitation mam

[Xenocrates]

I never knew women suffered from this problem. Interesting. I thought girls love "just being friends".

Now that I think about it, that explains why my "friend" Natalie acted that way when I mentioned going to see Star Wars with Gizelle... :eusa_thin

*picks up phone*

...*hangs up*

But Natalie doesn't like Star Wars... or maybe it's NOT about Star Wars... Hmm...

Meditate on this, I must... http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/meditate.gif

[Cocoa]

lol :D ....

ok then..........

[Xenocrates]

What's so funny? :icon_mrgr

[Cocoa]

What's so funny? :icon_mrgrumm do I need to tell ya.... :rolleyes: iits obvious.

[BlackCryptoKnight]

I married my best friend. Logic would dictate that the person you plan to spend the rest of your life with, would have to be your best friend.

[AngelsKiss]

I married my best friend. Logic would dictate that the person you plan to spend the rest of your life with, would have to be your best friend.
So long as your best friend is one of the opposite sex :D

[BlackCryptoKnight]

So long as your best friend is one of the opposite sex :D

Yes AK... no same sex ting right 'ere rasta!

Yuh see it now... dat a one a di problems today. Nuff people can't conceive that your best friend can be of the opposite sex. And nuff people don't realise that in order for you to have a good romantic relationship, your significant other needs to be your best friend.

[Greatis]

So long as your best friend is one of the opposite sex :D

cheap really cheap or is it expensive but of course we all agree with you :D

[AngelsKiss]

Yes AK... no same sex ting right 'ere rasta!

Yuh see it now... dat a one a di problems today. Nuff people can't conceive that your best friend can be of the opposite sex. And nuff people don't realise that in order for you to have a good romantic relationship, your significant other needs to be your best friend.
LOL...one of my closest friend is male. As a matter of fact, we are so close that I gave him power of attorney to pull the plug if I ever end up on life supporting equipment, so I can very well understand where you are coming from.

[Greatis]

LOL...one of my closest friend is male. As a matter of fact, we are so close that I gave him power of attorney to pull the plug if I ever end up on life supporting equipment, so I can very well understand where you are coming from.

Rahtid Angel you serious.

[AngelsKiss]

Rahtid Angel you serious.
Why............................. ?

[Greatis]

Why............................. ?

The pull the plug thing.

[AngelsKiss]

The pull the plug thing.
Ahhh that, yeah, if I need a machine to live, what's the sense? I firmly believe that if it's God's will pulling the plug won't make a difference.

[Leina]

I never knew women suffered from this problem. Interesting. I thought girls love "just being friends".

Now that I think about it, that explains why my "friend" Natalie acted that way when I mentioned going to see Star Wars with Gizelle... :eusa_thin

*picks up phone*

...*hangs up*

But Natalie doesn't like Star Wars... or maybe it's NOT about Star Wars... Hmm...

Meditate on this, I must... http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/meditate.gif

most girls just say that so that the guy doesn't think she is being too forceful but you do have some who wants to be just friends.

[Gwadinka]

Like me with all my boy friends.

I really don't get why it is so complicated for them to understand that. One of them even went that far as to explain that when a guy is said to be a girl's friend he knows perfectly in his heart that he is not....He may be for her but from his point of view he is just her future man. And when I asked him if wxe were friends he did not answer...

I think it's silly cuz I'd love to know that between there's no ambiguity.

[dtgo]

have you ever been in love with your bestfriend and he/she always have some girl/boyfriend who eva a stress him/her then a you end up haffi a comfort him and pray seh him finally notice you. or if you do tell him how you feel him laugh an tell you se fi stop fun joke with him.


that happen all the time with girls in my case , now it dnt even matter , ill just b there for the support :icon_frow

[Precious]

that happen all the time with girls in my case , now it dnt even matter , ill just b there for the support :icon_frow

Ahhh.... poor thing :icon_frow ;) . I'm here for you great one ;)

[dtgo]

never been in love any way, maybe i dnt find the right one or im just sparing myself the GREAT pain :o


any way u take it im comfortable how i am right now , until miss right comes along

[dtgo]

Ahhh.... poor thing :icon_frow ;) . I'm here for you great one ;)


what a gwan home girl

u a joker still , a talk u a talk :p

[Precious]

what a gwan home girl

u a joker still , a talk u a talk :p

Love you too darling ;) :D

[Greatis]

Hello the term Great One refers to me the Greatis pls refrain from calling anyone else on this forum anything even remotely resembling great in it. Thank You. Signed Johnny Cochran. Greatis's Lawyer.

[AngelsKiss]

Hello the term Great One refers to me the Greatis pls refrain from calling anyone else on this forum anything even remotely resembling great in it. Thank You. Signed Johnny Cochran. Greatis's Lawyer.
Apparently you haven't heard but Johnny Cochrane is dead, unless you planned on using his Ghost. If you do intend to use his ghost bear in mind that there is no precedence for using a ghost in court :)

[Greatis]

Apparently you haven't heard but Johnny Cochrane is dead, unless you planned on using his Ghost. If you do intend to use his ghost bear in mind that there is no precedence for using a ghost in court :)

You should notice that the name has changed it's missing an E. Now this just goes to show the man's style has changed since being a ghost. No more court house business. Strictly hauntings. :icon_twis

[AngelsKiss]

You should notice that the name has changed it's missing an E. Now this just goes to show the man's style has changed since being a ghost. No more court house business. Strictly hauntings. :icon_twis
LOL...He had beet erbe good, Idon't know many ppl who are afraid of ghost...but we stray off topic ;)

[Ricky]

dat have you. he has a girlfriend and the only tthing he want to talk about is her, how smart she is........ :rolleyes: i mean i feel as if mi could a just lick him sometimes :icon_evil

Soory mi frien' :icon_cry: I can just imagine. I wonder if that's how my friend feels? :eusa_thin . Well I think I have laid it out before and we have understood that from the beginning. She is also involved as well.

Hush again ya mi frien

[dtgo]

Love you too darling ;) :D

:icon_redf

like u serious

[Ricky]

:icon_redf

like u serious

yuh wouldn't mind if she serious don't? :p

[Leina]

Soory mi frien' :icon_cry: I can just imagine. I wonder if that's how my friend feels? :eusa_thin . Well I think I have laid it out before and we have understood that from the beginning. She is also involved as well.

Hush again ya mi frien

thanks for your concern. anyways mi give up on him, a dead stock

[dtgo]

yuh wouldn't mind if she serious don't? :p

trust mi she aint a mi likkle friend still

[Precious]

trust mi she aint a mi likkle friend still

Of course mi love yuh :icon_excl :D

[Ricky]

thanks for your concern. anyways mi give up on him, a dead stock


man it sound like him really blind :icon_eek: . When him eyes open him mus feel like fi jus give himself one lick. A fi him loss yah Leina

[Ricky]

Of course mi love yuh :icon_excl :D


Stop pull de man leg :icon_twis :icon_lol:

[dtgo]

Stop pull de man leg :icon_twis :icon_lol:

:D ami friend a so we run joe all di tyme

[Leina]

Stop pull de man leg :icon_twis :icon_lol:

so why you haffi think seh she a pull di man leg? supposed she really love him, there are different types love you know???

[Gwadinka]

Where are AK and Greatis?

How do you want to attract more viewers to the show Days of Bold,Beautiful, Young and Restless Caribyard Life? :icon_ques
Didn't they notice that there seems to be a new couple.. :p ..I ain't gonna tell nobody but ok just a clue d... and p...... ;)

[Leina]

Where are AK and Greatis?

How do you want to attract more viewers to the show Days of Bold,Beautiful, Young and Restless Caribyard Life? :icon_ques
Didn't they notice that there seems to be a new couple.. :p ..I ain't gonna tell nobody but ok just a clue d... and p...... ;)
we should start a thread for the you know? better yet we should start our soap opera thread

[Ricky]

so why you haffi think seh she a pull di man leg? supposed she really love him, there are different types love you know???

Well dat a true, but it jus sound like Precious a ramp wid di man. :icon_lol: :icon_lol:

[Leina]

Well dat a true, but it jus sound like Precious a ramp wid di man. :icon_lol: :icon_lol:

if you say so anyways they are 'friends' so mi nah go interfere with them

[Ricky]

if you say so anyways they are 'friends' so mi nah go interfere with them

Mek mi lef dem too yah, cockroach no business inna fowl fight (or is this fowl frienship)? :icon_lol:

[Xenocrates]

Mek mi lef dem too yah, cockroach no business inna fowl fight

- Fun Fact: Did you guys know that this Jamaican expression was derived from this original - Never bring a knife to a gun fight

http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y142/xenocrates/Smilies/eh.gif

Well ok, back to your discussion.... :eusa_shif

[Master E]

Revising this thread has placed me in consideration
Now i'm thinking i wonder if she like mi off
when where out chillin and someone calls to her shi usually say's "Don't you see i'm with my man" but that a jus fi get rid of some eediat bway.
and she alway inroduce me as her boyfriend. But...

Hek naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah thats imposible. :icon_lol:
Ill call her now

[Leina]

Revising this thread has placed me in consideration
Now i'm thinking i wonder if she like mi off
when where out chillin and someone calls to her shi usually say's "Don't you see i'm with my man" but that a jus fi get rid of some eediat bway.
and she alway inroduce me as her boyfriend. But...

Hek naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah thats imposible. :icon_lol:
Ill call her now

nah a so my friend say, especially if it is a guy that he doesn't think is suitable for me, he tells them that i'm his girlfriend so they suouldn't even look too hard on me

[Arch_Angel]

Well, I'm currently in love with my best friend. And I'm planning to spend the rest of my life with her.

Ahh, nothing like having your best friend with you, throughout life's journey. ;)

[Leina]

Well, I'm currently in love with my best friend. And I'm planning to spend the rest of my life with her.

Ahh, nothing like having your best friend with you, throughout life's journey. ;)

oh that is soo sweet just remember my invitaion. send it to Jodene Evans

[Arch_Angel]

oh that is soo sweet just remember my invitaion. send it to Jodene Evans
LoL. I'll keep that in mind. ;)

[dtgo]

Well dat a true, but it jus sound like Precious a ramp wid di man. :icon_lol: :icon_lol:


:eusa_thin i wonder mmnnnn

[Master E]

Well I called
and...
well..
She said...
**sigh**
I told her I couldn't
Ill have to think about it

[Manu]

Well, I'm currently in love with my best friend. And I'm planning to spend the rest of my life with her.

Ahh, nothing like having your best friend with you, throughout life's journey. ;)

LOL....him show off eeh...a nuh you one yu nuh!!!!....

LOL....Good for you AK....we are a lucky bunch...you, myself and Drew....

My gf is pretty much also my soul mate.....interesting how our paths crossed and it seemed like answers to the same prayer we both prayed...at the same time...when we didn't know each other. love her soooooooooo much!!! Thank you God:eusa_pray

[Cocoa]

Well I called
and...
well..
She said...
**sigh**
I told her I couldn't
Ill have to think about itInteresting... :eusa_thin no baddah mek through de thread ya yu go inna relationship yu know. :icon_lol: :icon_lol:

[Greatis]

oh that is soo sweet just remember my invitaion. send it to Jodene Evans So you're Jodene Evans

[Greatis]

yeesh no man Soap Opera Thread need to be started.

[Master E]

Interesting... :eusa_thin no baddah mek through de thread ya yu go inna relationship yu know. :icon_lol: :icon_lol:
Naaah, good friends are hard to find and I don't want to hurt her

[dtgo]

Naaah, good friends are hard to find and I don't want to hurt her


U SURE SHE NUH WORTH IT PAR-EE? ;)

[Leina]

So you're Jodene Evans

yeah look how long mi tell you that a long time ago

[Leina]

Well I called
and...
well..
She said...
**sigh**
I told her I couldn't
Ill have to think about it

huh?? what couldn't you do, you know you have to break things down for me

[Master E]

U SURE SHE NUH WORTH IT PAR-EE?
Trust mi shi worth it, but for someone that special, I cant aford to cause her pain and she know the type of person I am.
huh?? what couldn't you do, you know you have to break things down for me I cant be in a relationships with her because ill only cause her great pain.

[dtgo]

Trust mi shi worth it, but for someone that special, I cant aford to cause her pain and she know the type of person I am.
I cant be in a relationships with her because ill only cause her great pain.


I KNOW what u mean man i had to make that decision a couple of times :icon_neut

[Manu]

Why would you hurt anyways? To me thats a cop out. If you care about her enough not to hurt her...then you should care enough about her to change....and be a better man....don't you think?! "It's better to have loved and lost, than not to have loved at all." If there is some other reason then fine...but don't make excuses about not hurting her!

[Master E]

Why would you hurt anyways? To me thats a cop out. If you care about her enough not to hurt her...then you should care enough about her to change....and be a better man....don't you think?! "It's better to have loved and lost, than not to have loved at all." If there is some other reason then fine...but don't make excuses about not hurting her!
I need to sort out myself first before I can go into a relationship with her

[chany86]

well my best fren is a gurl so no, have never fallen in love with her. Many times i call her my "bf"(short way of saying best fren) but most guys think i mean boyfren and it totally turns them off...well, that was my intention (sometimes its just a slip of the tongue- then i quickly correct it.)

I do have a good male fren that i think i may be slowly warming up to (i mean i love the idea of telling my guy fren i just vomitted and need a breath mint, or that its that time of the month or some-one who will say, "that dress does not look good on you" [i'd kill him if he really said that] just like my bestfren.)

Its all in Gods time though. for now i'm focusing on getting my life together b4 i commit to anyone. make sense??

[Drew]

Its all in Gods time though. for now i'm focusing on getting my life together b4 i commit to anyone. make sense??makes alot of sense, and i think its a very smart move.

[Leina]

Trust mi shi worth it, but for someone that special, I cant aford to cause her pain and she know the type of person I am.
I cant be in a relationships with her because ill only cause her great pain.

ohh you love she! nuh worry there is time 4 everything so when u r more mature unno can build on a solid foundation

[Manu]

I need to sort out myself first before I can go into a relationship with her

Better you say that....thats what I said to bestfriend who later became my girlfriend. I had to sort out myself....and I used to mess around with other girls....then I started to feel guilty for kissing them...like I'm cheating. Not that she minded because she knew the situation (one of the very few women who accept that) so I decided that I would rather have her in my life. We're still bestfriends!