Do Women Intimidate you ?

[Gillion]

I posted this question on a male dominated site and it was quitely ignored... I formed lots of opinions based on that. So I pose the question here.

Do Women intimidate you ? What kind and Why ?

-- lets see the colour of your blood.
Gillion

[BlackCryptoKnight]

Do Women intimidate you ?
No. Why should they? They're regular human beings like everybody else.

[Nastro]

Woman are not regular human beings.....they let us think that.

[BlackCryptoKnight]

Woman are not regular human beings.....they let us think that.

That's the kind of thinking that lets some men get intimidated by women - simply because they are women.

I can more readily understand why a person may be intimidated by another person because of some individual characteristic (eg. a violent temperment, or psychotic behaviour), but not just because of the person's gender.

[Arch_Angel]

I'm not sure how to answer the question, but I guess women do intimidate me to some extent. My g/f sometimes intimidate me to do things I wouldn't usually do (a positive thing of course).
As for women I don't know, certain characteristics do intimidate. But this would be the same if it was a guy that I don't know.

[RobyG]

nope..not at all

[Cocoa]

Why should we intimidate men? Do we look unappraochable and have horns in our heads?

[Chris]

...Do we look unappraochable and have horns in our heads?

With some hairstyles I see nowadays I wonder ... :D

[Greatis]

With some hairstyles I see nowadays I wonder ... :D
mine you get yourself in trouble Chris :eusa_whis

[tallyouth]

just by how they dress it mostly stimulates more than intimdate
that's my 1 cent :icon_mrgr

[Lisa20]

Why should we intimidate men? Do we look unappraochable and have horns in our heads?


I totally agree with you. We do not sport horns so there is no need to be intimidated by us.

[MiTcHiE]

Y should we be intimidated by women??? We r all humans, breathe the same air etc.

I dont understand the nature of this question, Is it with reference to aproaching a woman, or with dealing with women on a daily basis???

[Chris]

I dont understand the nature of this question, Is it with reference to aproaching a woman, or with dealing with women on a daily basis???

LOL. Good point Mitchie. We didn't even clarify the original question ... so which one is it?

[Gillion]

The question is born out of what I observe with some men.... especially at utech.... when it comes to approaching Women.

They guys I know turn into idiots... literally.

Some begin to get all sweaty and the room was well cold !!!!

In other cases I have seen guys begin to stutter.

At the club they have to "steel them self" with a stiff drink before "dem go check di hot chick over di corner."

I watched a group of Utech boys make complete asses of themselves in trying to gain the attention of a group of girls on that campus. Now me being the ever curios person ask one of them "What di hell was dat..."

And he stated that "Hot girls like that intimidate him"

:eusa_wall :icon_lol:

--gillion

Maybe I should ask what the hell is a hot girl.... ?

[Arch_Angel]

Well, in that case, my answer is no, women don't intimidate me. lol

I went to an all boy school and trust me, when a girl entered the campus and walked pass the classrooms, the entire school will be disrupted and you will see tongue's rolled out like red carpet. They ignore the teacher and all gape outside through the windows. Whistles and cat calls were heard all over the school. It was ridiculous.

But those utech gentlemen sound like they came straight out of a cartoon. ;)

[Greatis]

The same things happens for women I've noticed. Whenever we used to go to all girls schools the girls would just stand gaping :rolleyes:

[Cocoa]

The same things happens for women I've noticed. Whenever we used to go to all girls schools the girls would just stand gaping :rolleyes:
Well I went to an all girls HIgh School in Kingston and the KC, JC, Calabar or Georges guys would come over for club meetings. When they do we stare....(note: not intimidated) ...we just look.

WHy?
Cuz its an ALL GIRLS school and not EVERYDAY we see men...FOOOINE MEN at that. Comapared to what we see everyday- women :rolleyes:

[MiTcHiE]

*Babbling*
Any dude who is intimidated when it comes time to approach a woman is a punk in my eyes. Firstly his approach is all wrong. He is scared of rejection,but I learnt this a long time ago, in life u will be rejected and turned down, use it as a confidence builder and not let it bring u down. These guys dont understand the process that takes place where approaching a woman is concerned. Approaching a woman in a friendly manner instead of straight "looking her" is always the better route.

Cmon being scared wont get u anywhere. This is y i fail to understand the logic of being scared to approach a woman, the worst she could say is no, and after that i will still have a great sleep. When I c guys sweating and whatnot I just chalk it up as inexperience.

I wonder if they think the girl isnt seeing this??? Most girls see everything, they notice when u play with ur fingers, when u look down, when u blush, when u sweat, etc.

Gillion I understand how it must feel to c these guys at utech, Tsk Tsk

[Gillion]

the reaol core of the issue is why they act this way... what do they fear... its only a woman... she made of flesh and bone just like you, so why the odd behaviour.

I can understand being shy. I used to be shy and to some extent I still am.

But them guys gone way past that and hit the mother load of cowardly....

but I really wanted to know... what so special about a woman that would make her intimidate a man... unless she carrying a gun or you have insecurites about your self.

[Cocoa]

Nothing special Gillion but that we are WOMEN.
A woman we name.....

[Xenocrates]

I think the fear is more relegated to their inability to converse, than the fear of the woman in and of herself. Learning to converse with a woman is a necessary skill which is all too unknown these days. I speak with reference to many of the youths I see on the brother site @ TechJamaica and in my everyday wranglings. In terms of being intimidated, the fear many young men face is not so much:



"Gosh, she is so gorgeous, she will never want to talk to me"

as much as it is:



"Gosh, she is so gorgeous, but WHAT will I say to her?"

The number 1 fear that these guys have (and those of you still lurking, you know yourselves) is how to START the conversation. Once the conversation is STARTED, it doesn't matter where it ends, rejection or otherwise. Starting the conversation is always the hard part for many of these guys.

It's actually a little more complicated than that, but I don't want to start off on a rant.

[Cocoa]

Mr X......you are the expert I see on dating and relationships ha.

[Xenocrates]

Au contraire ma dame, I'm more of an expert on human psychology. The reasons why people do stuff is more intriguing to me than the act in and of itself.

Did you know that there are women who are intrigued by the fact that there exists some male who wants them and is fully aware that he can't have her?

It's as if these women get a kick out of being inaccessible. Others like to play mind games, a cat & mouse kind of "catch me if you can" sorta thing. Highly cognitive sexual play, the sorta thing that scares a lot of men. These are the only types of female that are truly intimidating, even to men who never usually find themselves intimidated.

The good news is that most of such females are few and far between... and for some reason they all (so far) seem to be ICHS girls. I wonder why...

... :eusa_eh:

I'll do some research on that and get back to y'all. :icon_mrgr

[Cocoa]

It's as if these women get a kick out of being inaccessible.Yep, don't want to come off cheap.


Highly cognitive sexual play........these are the only types of female that are truly intimidating.Hmm really? I guess I am intimidating now ha..;)

[Xenocrates]

So you like mind games JCB?

[Cocoa]

No Mr X, I don't play games.

[deakie]

im so intimidated by them that i normaly just blurt out the truth as to what im thinking.....

[Greatis]

im so intimidated by them that i normaly just blurt out the truth as to what im thinking.....

I don't think that's intimidation Deakie.... :rolleyes:

[Cocoa]

im so intimidated by them that i normaly just blurt out the truth as to what im thinking.....
The truth is good as long as your tactful.

[BlackCryptoKnight]

I know one thing that intimidates many guys is the "hive mind" or "the committee" aka her girlfriends. If "the committee" says you're a bum, then you're salted. You have to make it past the girlfriends to get any respect. That makes some guys just not bother.

[Gillion]

my yout... is only bees live in hives.

the last time I check... BAD MAN NOT INTO DATING INSECTS !!!

are you ?

what a REAL man doing wid a woman that share the hive mind ?

She gonna go to the bathroom and six of the little other bees buzzing away behind her... for what ? to take a leak ? I don't get it... if going to the bathroom I going by myself.

And if you watch star trek... hive minds are very destructive (the borg)

I like me women to be a little more... "klingon"... able to handle their own... yuh zimi ?

Den now you have the man dem dat have the hive mind as well... still insects... yuh zimi ?

[Cocoa]

BCK..birds of a feather flock together ha. ;)

[Pondadat]

Do women intimidate you? Is this for men and dating? or is it for women also. Asking if they are intimidated by other women? I am not intimidated by other women. I dont date women, just men. But in social settings, such as work and being in public groups. I would say no Im not. But somehow I think this question is directed towards men. :)

[philben]

Sometimes i wonder at this question - as to why some men never approach even when you know they are looking your way - I'd love to meet some of you guys who are not intimidated at all. It would seem to me more of insecurity with these guys than intimidation.

[Gillion]

philben.... you hit the nail on the head !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Sunserie]

I think a lot of men are intimidated by women. This does go both ways, I'm just replying to the question. Nothing someone else does is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality. When you learn to become immune to the opinion and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering - ie: intimidation. If you see me walking down the street and you say to yourself 'damn I would love to have a woman like that but your to scared to speak, your a victim of a conditioned mind. Somewhere you've been conditioned to believe that certain people and things are beyond your reach or your maybe just not good enough. Sadly the fact of the matter is that I'm no better than you we are equal as human beings and you've just been mislead in life!

[Greatis]

Sometimes i wonder at this question - as to why some men never approach even when you know they are looking your way - I'd love to meet some of you guys who are not intimidated at all. It would seem to me more of insecurity with these guys than intimidation.

Exactly Philben. :eusa_clap

[philben]

I have actually met a number of guys who I think are insecure (and I don't know if this needs a ned thread) and I am baffled. Why? esp. in relation to achievements, when the woman thinks nothing of it, i.e. it is nothing to her!