What would you do if you find out your parents aren't your parents

[kelly]

i would really appreciate that every one share their view on this topic who knows it can happen to you. :)

[pogi_2nr]

Well my parents were a good influence in my life, so if it turns out that they were not my
real parents then more power to me! I dont really talk to them much so I dont really see
this new revelation phazing me much. I dont think I would be too curious as to who the
real parents are either.

[kelly]

Well my parents were a good influence in my life, so if it turns out that they were not my
real parents then more power to me! I dont really talk to them much so I dont really see
this new revelation phazing me much. I dont think I would be too curious as to who the
real parents are either.
my my my you are really cutting to the chase this morning.if you really had a good relationship with them wouldn't you feel that they didn't trust you enough or that you weren't "mature or old" enough to be told the truth about your real parentage? :confused:

[Manu]

Meh....I'm sure about mine so no need to think otherwise but fr argument sake...I would feel lost and empty and confused because my heritage is a big part of me and i love my family dearly and have grieved the loss of many and eventhough I would still care because they were close to me..I'd feel even worse that my real is out there and I didn't get to meet em. Sorry for the long @ss sentence :eusa_shif

[pogi_2nr]

I see my family for at most 2 hours a week, that would be mother, father and sister put together.
I see my other relatives like cousins, uncles, aunts.. 4hours/year if I see any of them at all.

I wouldnt be missing out on much.

[kelly]

Meh....I'm sure about mine so no need to think otherwise but fr argument sake...I would feel lost and empty and confused because my heritage is a big part of me and i love my family dearly and have grieved the loss of many and eventhough I would still care because they were close to me..I'd feel even worse that my real is out there and I didn't get to meet em. Sorry for the long @ss sentence :eusa_shif
if you get the chance would you like to meet them and see what they are about?you might never know what might happen. :)

[kelly]

I see my family for at most 2 hours a week, that would be mother, father and sister put together.
I see my other relatives like cousins, uncles, aunts.. 4hours/year if I see any of them at all.

I wouldnt be missing out on much.
at the rate you are going i'd say that you are quite comfortable with the way things are with you and your family.i hope you don't regret it in the long run. by the way do you live on your own.just curious. :)

[Bahama Mama]

Mmmm......I believe this thread should be in the 'Family and Relationships' category, but to answer your question:

If I found out that my parents are not actually my biological parents, I would be:

-shocked
-confused
-a bit depressed

When these initial emotions wear off, I would agressively seek out my biological parents and the story surrounding why they never raised me. I definetaly would want to know who they are, no doubt about it. Of course depending on the situation I would not loose the love for the woman that I have known as mother for over 22 years, even the man that I call my father.

[kelly]

Mmmm......I believe this thread should be in the 'Family and Relationships' category, but to answer your question:

If I found out that my parents are not actually my biological parents, I would be:

-shocked
-confused
-a bit depressed

When these initial emotions wear off, I would agressively seek out my biological parents and the story surrounding why they never raised me. I definetaly would want to know who they are, no doubt about it. Of course depending on the situation I would not loose the love for the woman that I have known as mother for over 22 years, even the man that I call my father.
my mistake.excellent point if i may say.when you say depending on the situation would mind clarifying that for me? :)

[Bahama Mama]

my mistake.excellent point if i may say.when you say depending on the situation would mind clarifying that for me? :)

Well if I was abducted from my biological parents by the parents I have known for over 22 years, that might cause me to loose concern, if nto love for them.

[Trickster]

If that should happen, I would be shocked but they would still be my parents. Being a parent goes way beyond creating children. I've always wanted to search for someone so this would give the opportunity to search for my biological parents.
Maybe i watch too much Tv :icon_redf

[Chilli pepper]

if i found out that my real parents were not my parents my curiousity of whether my assume biological parents would have made a better home for me, if i had other brothers and sisters would outweigh my anger. i mean maybe it is best the way things are, what would be gained from feeling angry and sorry for myself when i could look at the flip side that i am blessed with two families.
if these new parents want anything to do with me they'd feel guilty and want to give me all the things they didnt give me when i was young a wealth a love and *** kissing.

suppose that they were wealthy imagine all the CHEESE i would get and i DO need it right now for school for one.

[kelly]

if i found out that my real parents were not my parents my curiousity of whether my assume biological parents would have made a better home for me, if i had other brothers and sisters would outweigh my anger. i mean maybe it is best the way things are, what would be gained from feeling angry and sorry for myself when i could look at the flip side that i am blessed with two families.
if these new parents want anything to do with me they'd feel guilty and want to give me all the things they didnt give me when i was young a wealth a love and *** kissing.

suppose that they were wealthy imagine all the CHEESE i would get and i DO need it right now for school for one.
quite well said chilli by the way welcome unfurtunately i'm going for lunch now so i will talk to you later. :)

[g2cris]

Well unless one of my uncles are my dad. I dont think thats possible but if i waere in such a position mi woulda vex unless them rotten rich. Then I would repay my beloved gurdians for thier troubles but otherwise i wouldnt realy care. LOL