Age and Relationships

[Chicokid]

Ok..so since there is a lot of topics about relationships doing down here, I have a couple questions to ponder about.

1. When is the proper age people should start dating :icon_ques

2. In a relationship should the man always be older than the woman :icon_ques

3. What is the maximum age gap between two persons :icon_ques

[Cocoa]

1. When is the proper age people should start dating
In my house, when I see you doing well in school and your under my roof ....16 years old. I do think however, that you can save all that 'dating' until you are 18 or 21 and/or mature enough to take care of yourself.


2. In a relationship should the man always be older than the woman
I don't think there needs to be a rule. Level of maturity should count though no matter the age.


3. What is the maximum age gap between two persons Again, not a set rule but for me, no more than 10 years older and no less than 2 years younger. (of course there are always exceptions to rules.)

[Arch_Angel]

2. In a relationship should the man always be older than the womanGrowing up during my teenage years, I thought it was the rule for guys to date girls or to have a girlfriend that is either close to your age, or a few years younger. So every girl I saw that was older than I am, I dismissed as not girlfriend material.

But right now, I am in a relationship, and she is almost 2 years older than I am. So I basically threw out my rule book. lol

1. When is the proper age people should start datingIf you're thinking of dating young, group dates are always a good start. Takes the uneasiness out of going out on a date with a lady on your own, since you know what to do.

3. What is the maximum age gap between two personsWait, is a rule book you want!?! A soon write one fi yu. lol
I think the closer the age gap, the more likely you have something in common.
I have noticed most times someone that has a gf/bf 10 years younger or older than them, is mostly for sex appeal.

[Gillion]

2 years older... dayum.... she gon die before you !!!!!!!! :D

[Arch_Angel]

2 years older... dayum.... she gon die before you !!!!!!!! :D
LoL, I try not to think about that Gillion and just enjoy the time we spend together. :D

[Chicokid]

Does it really matter who dies first :confused:

[Cocoa]

Ater 2 years ain't nothing. My spiritual mentors and leaders of a church I use to go to when I was in the army taught me alot.
(Keep in mind CK, I can't provide you with a book of rules ;)) But they taught me alot about love, God, age and what really matters most.

'R' is 44 yrs old (woman- 1/2blk & german) and 'S" is 33 (male- africanamerican) ... 11 years age difference but known each other from they were 31 and 20 respectively and married for 11 years known each other for over a decade. Now this couple has demonstrated to me the true story of what God wants in a marriage. Love is boundary less and glorious. I love them a lot.

Now which would die first is a silly way to think of it when you are in love. But it doesn't matter...who God puts together, let no man put asunder.

[Brownsugar]

Ok..so since there is a lot of topics about relationships doing down here, I have a couple questions to ponder about.

1. When is the proper age people should start dating :icon_ques

2. In a relationship should the man always be older than the woman :icon_ques

3. What is the maximum age gap between two persons :icon_ques

1.Sixteen. Group dating should be encouraged.

2.I would say yes, but the answer is no!

3.It nah matter!

[Babyjay]

Y'all jus gave me more encouragement to pursue somebody outta my age range :icon_lol:

I have an additional question to CK's list:
Is it acceptable for a woman to pursue a man?

[Chicokid]

I have an additional question to CK's list:
Is it acceptable for a woman to pursue a man?

I don't see nothing wrong with a woman trying to get a guy. That is if she truly has feelings for that person.

[acidblade]

Is it acceptable for a woman to pursue a man?
yes it is..............................................

[pogi_2nr]

Is 16 too young for me?

I normally dont talk to young girls but I have noticed they are no longer
interested in talking and are now proposing doing very naughty things to me.

I am torn on this.

[Brownsugar]

Heck yes 16 too young!
Yuh like dem so eh?!

[Twinkie]

yes it is..............................................
If you didn't agree... :eusa_whis

Is 16 too young for me?

I normally dont talk to young girls but I have noticed they are no longer
interested in talking and are now proposing doing very naughty things to me.

I am torn on this.

:dwl: :dwl: :dwl: :dwl: :dwl: Sick twisted pogi

[nuhsenutten]

they aint so lil nemore ......i waiting for november to come

[acidblade]

they aint so lil nemore ......i waiting for november to come

somebody turning 16? :eusa_thin

[nuhsenutten]

somebody turning 16? :eusa_thin

:eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap

[acidblade]

:eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap

yute wait till she 18 :eusa_snoo

[Twinkie]

they aint so lil nemore ......i waiting for november to come


somebody turning 16? :eusa_thin


yute wait till she 18 :eusa_snoo

:dwl: :dwl: :dwl:

:haha:

[Bahama Mama]

Ok..so since there is a lot of topics about relationships doing down here, I have a couple questions to ponder about.

1. When is the proper age people should start dating :icon_ques

I think individuals should absolutely not begin dating until after completion of highschool. Dating during this time tends to serves as too much of a distraction for most kids. Anytime afterwards I think is fair game to enter the world of dating.



2. In a relationship should the man always be older than the woman :icon_ques

Its not an absolute rule. What is more important is the individuals maturity level.



3. What is the maximum age gap between two persons :icon_ques

Whatever is firstly permissable by law especially for those that gravitate towards the younger populous. Barring that whatever the two parties are mutually comfortable with.

[root_gal]

1. I think dating can start from as early as 12 or 13 (dating in this sense meaning the innocent little bf/gf at school stuff and group dates). Going out in pairs should wait until around 16. I think waiting until 19+ to start dating makes people awkward when it comes to the oppposite sex.

2. Not at all.

3. The age gap is relative. For example, a ten year age gap would be ok if the parties are around 25 and 35. However, if one party is 15 and the other is 25, then this would definitely not be suitable.

[Purple Queen]

Age is just a number:)

[nuhsenutten]

yute wait till she 18 :eusa_snoo

NAW FATTEN FOWL FE MONGOOSE................:eusa_naug


BY LAW WE SHALL ABIDE:eusa_danc