Jamaican Ladies

[Dev]

Hey Ladies 8)

Wazzup, what qualities do you look for in a guy?

[Nastro]

I think they generally go the rich type.

Whether are rich or look rich.

[Greatis]

I think they generally go the rich type.

Whether are rich or look rich.

are you living up to Daffy's personality Nastro? :lol:

[Shortie]

Nice of u ladies to answer :lol:

[Dev]

I was sitting here thinkin the same thing :wink:

[Chris]

LOL.

[Greatis]

Nice of u ladies to answer :lol:

that's not funny :eusa_sile

[NIBOO]

:D HEY THERE GUYS, I MUS DISAGREE WIT U AFTER ALL THER R SUM GUD GIRLS LEFT WHO DON'T CARE ENTIRELY ABOUT MONEY, SURE A GUY HAS 2 AV A LITTLE DOUGH IN HIS POCKET AFTER ALL U'LL AT SUM TIME WANT 2 TREAT UR GIRL. BUT WE (I) ALSO LIKE GUYS WHO R RESPECTFUL, NOT SUM LITTLE WUSS, KNO HOW 2 ASK A WOMAN 4 HELP IN CERTAIN SITUATIONS (NOT BCUZ UR A GUY MEANS UR SUPERMAN)
IS AMBITIOUS, HAS DREAMS DAT HE IS WORKING ON & NOT JUS TALKIN ABOUT THEM EVRYDAY AND CAN JUS BE THER 2 CHEER :wink: UP HIS WOMAN WENEVA SHE NEEDS IT WHETHER NEAR OR FAR. AFTER ALL THERE IS NO TALL DARK KNIGHT & SHINING ARMOUR WAITING OUTSIDE A WOMANS DOOR- DAT WUZ THE FAIRY TALE DAYS :!: :!:

[kilaj1]

I think they generally go the rich type.

Whether are rich or look rich.
You crusing for a brusing there nas. True there are some dimond diggers...not gold diggers, them move pass dat...but there a few good one left....granted that they more than likly already have there man...but dont let that stop you :roll: :wink:

[Nastro]

Are you suggesting that I should go out and try to find women who belong to other people, and convince them to share their passion with me?

So you are saying that these now cheating women are good women to have....hhhmmmm


and I thought this was only in the movies and music videos.

[kilaj1]

Well there a few problems in your logic nastro


Are you suggesting that I should go out and try to find women who belong to other people u done know u dont find this out until its too late...or is this with the men....


and convince them to share their passion with me? who said anything about sharing?


and I thought this was only in the movies and music videos.
the best place to get the lyrics!!

Hey now dont get me wrong I do belive in keeping 1 partner...my pockets also belive that too. plus u know the other bad stuff out there.

[Nastro]

hhahahaha


:eusa_wall I need to learn this player thing some more.

[kilaj1]

hhahahaha


](*,) I need to learn this player thing some more.

Payers' Hand Book, page 909, subsection G..."dont get high on your own supply"....wait ...........wrong book....dont hate the player hate the game

[Nastro]

Payers' Hand Book, page 909, subsection G..."dont get high on your own supply"....wait ...........wrong book....dont hate the player hate the game

I think I should remind you of FAB 5's Song. Jamaican Woman a sugar and salt, nuff a dem a ginal and wi make you bawl.

[Xenocrates]

Nas, that's a highly general description of most women. But how come y'all ignore what Niboo said? No commentaries on that?

The best way to determine if she is a good woman, especially if you got lots of dough, is to offer to take her out to eat patty and cocoa bread and orange juice with you one day. Look deeeeep into her eyes and watch for the reaction.

For the good woman, she'd get all excited and cherish the opportunity. Cuz she's all about you, not about your pocket.

The bad woman's eyes would dilate significantly, and this will be immediately followed by a period of akward silence followed by a:


:eusa_snoo

...or some similar reaction. At best, you will get a half hearted "ooookaaaay... aaaawriiiight...."

LOL

[Chris]

Nice test there Xeno :) Thank God I don't have to worry about these things because my wife and I still eat patties :p

[Nastro]

Nas, that's a highly general description of most women. But how come y'all ignore what Niboo said? No commentaries on that?

The best way to determine if she is a good woman, especially if you got lots of dough, is to offer to take her out to eat patty and cocoa bread and orange juice with you one day. Look deeeeep into her eyes and watch for the reaction.

For the good woman, she'd get all excited and cherish the opportunity. Cuz she's all about you, not about your pocket.

The bad woman's eyes would dilate significantly, and this will be immediately followed by a period of akward silence followed by a:


:eusa_snoo

...or some similar reaction. At best, you will get a half hearted "ooookaaaay... aaaawriiiight...."

LOL

Xeno again a qoute...."Nuff a dem a ginal...."

Some will accept the patty and cocobread, and secretly make plans for the lobster and white wine.

Dem girls now a days mi fraid a dem massa.


NIBOO...(sorry for not saying something earlier), I kinda agree with you , but what if the guys has ambition but don't have no money yet?

[Greatis]

wicked test Xeno. I've a lot of female friends and out of ten, 7 said they would not go to juicy beef to have lunch wid no man cause a dis him waan dis dem wid bout juicy beef. dem don't even waan go a kfc nuh more.

[Xenocrates]

Of a truth though still, girls like stuff mixed up from time to time. So nothing is wrong with taking her to a fancy restaurant every once in a while. Just change things up a bit. Don't take her out for patties all the time. Cuz that's ridiculous. (This goes for married people too).

But don't do the expensive thing too often, or else she will permanently get the wrong impression (that you actually have money). If you live in Jamaica, no matter how rich you are, you never have money. It's a principle.

If she doesn't get the wrong impression, she may get bored. This is actually worse than if she mistakenly thinks you have money.

But you know what's funny? Married women who are bored but genuinely love their mates are not likely to do much complaining. That's the brilliant thing with women. They will actually wait for their male to become pro-active about it. If she actually starts complaining, that's when it's REEEEEEAAAALLY bad and you the delinquent husband deserve every bit of cussing you get! Just cuz you're married doesn't mean you should stop doing what you were doing before you got married. ;)

Most single girls won't put up with that sorta thing (unless they intend to marry you). So if you do slip up like that and she's still around, it's real. :D

Nuh true Niboo? :)

Always mix things up!

- Patty & Cocoa bread on weekdays
- Go out somewhere casual on weekends
- Jade Garden, Margueritaville or Rib Kage on month ends

Your woman will love you for it!

And make sure you stick it into your budgetary constraints. That way you don't need to make the "Honey it's too expensive" excuse more often than is absolutely necessary.

But if she asks you for a $200,000 kitchen, that's where you draw the line. :D

LOL

[NIBOO]

ofcourse xeno, afterall i don't mind the mix up, one nite we gud grab sum kfc 4 dinner, sum nice juici beef cheese patty for lunch and a nice little fancy dinner 4 a weekend ( nothing EXTRAVAGANT jus simple & quiet) VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE!!!!!!!!

YEA SUM WOMEN R GINALS BUT COUPLE OF U GUYS R JUS THE SAME ( SCRUBS) ain't throwing my word gainst anybody jus sharin as i c it ( 80% of my friends r males so i kno the little workins sometimes) BUT ITS A MESSY WORLD OUT THER U JUS NEED 2 KEEP UR HANDS ON UR POCKETS, EYES OPEN & DON'T JUMP INTO EVERYTHING THAT SEEMS LIKE HEAVEN :icon_eek:

NASTRO- if a guy has any ambition all in life he wil not sit infrontn of the PS2 playing NEED 4 SPEED (my favourite ) evryday, asking u 4 money 24/7 for a year or 2 and in no way at all shows his appreciation, if i can c ur trying i'm hold on and even help u out, :eusa_snoo but the BAREFACE THING DONE WID!!!!!!

BLESS UP :cool:

[Ropy]

Don't take her out for patties all the time. Cuz that's ridiculous. (This goes for married people too).


aah boy, this looks like Xeno a point finger at someone. :eusa_whis :eusa_thin

[Xenocrates]

I agree Niboo. It's actually frightening the sheer number of males that actually do this. It's interesting that you should mention a dude playing PS2 all day long and living off his chick. I do happen to know a dude that was like that....'was' being the operative word ofcourse.

Ropy, no one in particular. But I know lots of married folks are guilty of it. That's why marriage seems boring to those who are yet to marry, and fail in some cases. Married people constantly do the same run of the mill thing day in day out. So the marriage eventually gets boring and dull. Lemme tell you about this one married couple I know who have been married for the better part of 6 years now, and you would swear that those two just met...

The husband once showed up at a presentation that his wife was giving to a set of board directors and asked one of the board members "who that woman was" ...as if he didn't know her. He then bet the dude $200 that he could walk up to her after the presentation and get her number. The dude he asked didn't know that they were married. After the presentation, he approached her like he was seeing her for the first time. He introduced himself, pickup lines 'n all, and asked her out for a drink. She, noticing what he was doing, played along and even played hard-to-get, making the event all the more entertaining for those who were watching them in the board room.

Ofcourse, none of the people who were watching the two of them knew they were already married. But it was so funny, and she was so excited by it, that I'm sure it really put a lot of extra fire into their relationship. That's the kind of inventiveness that I'm talking about.

To show you how inventive these two are, one christmas eve he was working late @ the office. Instead of *****ing about him not being there on Christmas eve, his wife showed up @ his office late in the evening, dressed in a slinky Santa Claus costume, hat and everything - but without the pants. Ofcourse everyone had already gone home (Except security). As he tells me, it was a night to remember...

...So you see? when married couples mix up stuff like that, often trying daring and exciting things every now and again, the marriage can never get boring and the fire will never go out. It's all a matter of how far husbands and wives are willing to go to keep each other entertained for the rest of their lives.

Like Niboo sez, Variety is the spice of life ;)

u zimi?

[Dev]

Variety is the spice of life indeed. If all women were like the ones I've had dealings with the I'd definately have to forget about women alltogether. But thank god there's variety.

[kilaj1]

Nas, that's a highly general description of most women. But how come y'all ignore what Niboo said? No commentaries on that?

The best way to determine if she is a good woman, especially if you got lots of dough, is to offer to take her out to eat patty and cocoa bread and orange juice with you one day. Look deeeeep into her eyes and watch for the reaction.

For the good woman, she'd get all excited and cherish the opportunity. Cuz she's all about you, not about your pocket.

The bad woman's eyes would dilate significantly, and this will be immediately followed by a period of akward silence followed by a:


:eusa_snoo

...or some similar reaction. At best, you will get a half hearted "ooookaaaay... aaaawriiiight...."

LOL

Another reply you could get from them is


You is one cheap *** nig***, how u mean fi carry mi fa eat patty and cocoa bread and orange juice, mi look like some likle gal pickny to you!!

....hey it only happened once and she was a real ... :icon_twis female dog :icon_twis ... :icon_cry:

[Greatis]

true words Xeno variety really counts in such relationships. Routine does becomes boring. It does not matter how the couple loves each other the relationship will at some point go stale.

Some other tips are, Camping Trips for weekends in the blue mountains, hotel/guest house stays, going to the skating rink, playing tennis/netball (my favourite) ;) , even going to the beach can be so much fun.

[brado]

Are you suggesting that I should go out and try to find women who belong to other people, and convince them to share their passion with me?

So you are saying that these now cheating women are good women to have....hhhmmmm


and I thought this was only in the movies and music videos. maybe they are being neglected by their partner

[BlackCryptoKnight]

Lemme ask this...why does the man have to be the one to do the spending?
Is there anything wrong with the woman shelling out the big dough for a change?

--BCK playing the :icon_twis advocate--- ;)

[Skillachi]

A good turn deserves another BCK and as the male you are expected to be the first to start things. You should be the person to take out the female, u should be the person to buy the drinks... its just a male thing we are working hard to try to get the female so we do all these things to get her.

But after we have hopefully gotten the female i would expect that she should treat us everynow and again too...

[BlackCryptoKnight]

A good turn deserves another BCK and as the male you are expected to be the first to start things. You should be the person to take out the female, u should be the person to buy the drinks... its just a male thing we are working hard to try to get the female so we do all these things to get her.

But after we have hopefully gotten the female i would expect that she should treat us everynow and again too...

Skilla, you've re-enforced the current view of the roles of the sexes. What I want to know is the "why"?

Who ordained that men should bankrupt themselves to please a woman?
If men and women are equal and should be treated equally, then why shouldn't the woman be the breadwinner in the family while the man stays home? Why can't the women open the doors for the men? Why can't the women take the men out to Jade Garden, and other fancy restaurants? Why can't the women buy the men Benz and Lexus? Why can't the women give the men money to go to barber and shop for clothes to "look good" for them?

My view is that whether you are a man or a woman, you can and should do things to show your appreciation to your partner, spouse, friend, potential friend - and these things shouldn't have to cost an arm and a leg. Simple things like listening, conversing, encouraging, sharing go a lot further to establishing a good relationship than digging a hole in your pocket so somebody laugh with her girlfriends about how she a "nyam out" your pocket.

Also if people measure affection and love based on material things they get, then their values are seriously screwed up. That's why there are so many unhappy people out there...they buy into this silly idea of "the game" - Chase after targeted mate, throw gifts at them, and they must love you forever...or chat up to several potential suitors, take their gifts then settle with the one with the biggest and most expensive gifts and they'll love u forever.

The sad thing about it is this... many of those people in "the game" at some point or another, just ache and yearn to be loved and appreciated for who they are and not what they have. They just want to be happy. But as long as they are in "the game" and are bound by "the rules" they won't get what they truly need.

Free your minds. Break out of the Matrix.

[Chris]

Free your minds. Break out of the Matrix.

Blue pill? ... Red pill? :cool:

[Arch_Angel]

I believe it is Biblical that the man take care of the woman.

I don't know about you, but for 1, I wouldn't "bankrupt" myself to please a woman. That's just plain stupid. Spend a little, sure. But not all.
And 2, if any woman allows a man to bankrupt himself for her, she is not very smart either. And it benefits her nothing if her guy is bankrupt.

If you find yourself spending waaay too much money on a lady and it seems there is no end in sight of her helping you to save, then that should give you a clue that she is not necesarily intrested in you only.

There are other ways of winning a womans heart than just throwing out cash out of your pocket. Stop making money the foundation of your relationships. Money comes and goes. That means your foundation is going to come and go. Do you know what happens when a foundation of a building is gone? It crumbles.

I guess I took the right pill!

[NirVana]

Hey Ladies 8)

Wazzup, what qualities do you look for in a guy?

A brain..that works.

Know it's not exactly a "quality"...it's more a neccessity.

[Chris]

A brain..that works.

Know it's not exactly a "quality"...it's more a neccessity.

LOL :icon_lol: Good one Nirvana ;)

[Cocoa]

what qualities do you look for in a guy
I can write a long list. But will only share Godly man, honest, personality, humor and will treat me like a Queen.

* other factors: good in bed in Every way and Tall dark handsome chocolate man.

[Twinkie]

Jamaican men are of a different species and breed. The MAJORITY is influenced by the media. "bad man nuh bow", "Tek Bubby, yuh tink me easy?" etc. "Redbull and guiness," that doesn't sound like a good mix to me; but when I do go out it's all these men are drinking. Why?? Because a dat the song.

So firstly I would like an independent thinking man. One who doesn't live his life riddim to riddim.

Next I want one like my dad. Marriage, kids, fidelity, head of the family, breadwinner and christian.

I need a father to my kids, or a guy that exhibits fatherlike qualities. This too would go against the grain of the majority of jamaican men. Why? Most a dem only breed and nuh care/mine [spend $$]

[acidblade]

:icon_lol: . :eusa_sile

[root_gal]

:icon_lol: . :eusa_sile

lol, u did just want fi mek a post don't? :D

[Brownsugar]

riddim to riddim ah found funny :P!


I agree with twinkie's post. And its true! Im goin to go WHITE soon! lol
But Im lookin for wahever is half price on lane eight! ;)

[Twinkie]

Don't you mean on sale in Aisle 3...nvr mnd.

[Brownsugar]

LMAO

nah hun its rite! They had dem couple days back!

[trasha]

I believe it is Biblical that the man take care of the woman.

I don't know about you, but for 1, I wouldn't "bankrupt" myself to please a woman. That's just plain stupid. Spend a little, sure. But not all.
And 2, if any woman allows a man to bankrupt himself for her, she is not very smart either. And it benefits her nothing if her guy is bankrupt.

If you find yourself spending waaay too much money on a lady and it seems there is no end in sight of her helping you to save, then that should give you a clue that she is not necesarily intrested in you only.

There are other ways of winning a womans heart than just throwing out cash out of your pocket. Stop making money the foundation of your relationships. Money comes and goes. That means your foundation is going to come and go. Do you know what happens when a foundation of a building is gone? It crumbles.

I guess I took the right pill!


guys no need to worry about me, i'm too independent, i never ask a guy for money no matter if i'm down to the last bit, i do my own hair, take good care of myself & i'm not a problem so y is it hard for me to find a guy :( ......

some ooman & men like to be hands out person & not bein independent.