Help me (well not really wantin y'all help but...)

[Babyjay]

Here's my situation:

I like this guy who my friend likes (not bosom buddy friend) and has likes for a long time, and he has liked her for a long time also. She's has several opportunities to b with him (he's asked her) but doesn't want to take up on it, so now he decides to move on....... to me. NO, he hasn't been eyein but we've been chattin alot for the past couple mths and have developed a strong likeness for each other. Now we want to b together (and we've already finalised that we ARE going to b together), but I don't want to seem like a bad person for hookin up with sumone that my "friend" has liked for so long.

Can I have some advice on how to go about this? I feel like intense pressure is on me cause we've (the girl and I) have known each other for so long and there were times when I've even teased her concernin him. Even her big sis (who i'm tight wit) calls him her future bro in law.

[Chicokid]

Here's my situation:

I like this guy who my friend likes (not bosom buddy friend) and has likes for a long time, and he has liked her for a long time also. She's has several opportunities to b with him (he's asked her) but doesn't want to take up on it, so now he decides to move on....... to me. NO, he hasn't been eyein but we've been chattin alot for the past couple mths and have developed a strong likeness for each other. Now we want to b together (and we've already finalised that we ARE going to b together), but I don't want to seem like a bad person for hookin up with sumone that my "friend" has liked for so long.

Can I have some advice on how to go about this? I feel like intense pressure is on me cause we've (the girl and I) have known each other for so long and there were times when I've even teased her concernin him. Even her big sis (who i'm tight wit) calls him her future bro in law.

Well if she's really your friend then you got to do the right thing and tell her. Your friend likes the guy but the guy doesn't seem to like her back. There's nothing you can do about that.

If your friend is really your friend, she'll accept that and don't hold a grudge against you.

[Twinkie]

Break it down for her, stressing that you guys have not been creeping all this time. Preferably half way thru the conversation you will include the guy to corroborate your story.

Now nuh matter how she feels, if she angry let her be, if she pissed let her be, she never persued that line of happiness when it was available, don't allow your opportunity to pass now because of HER feelings.

It'll be one regret you can avoid.

[Malloc-X]

i agree with twinkie do what feels right to u. if u lose that fren then so be it

[Twinkie]

i agree with twinkie do what feels right to u. if u lose that fren then so be it
Some how I feel the sarcasm raising the hair on my arms.