girlfriends vs mothers

[Drew]

whats the deal with these two??
why can't they get along for the sake of their boyfriends/sons??

[Gillion]

Because our mother doesn't think she is good enough for you.

Because your girl thinks your mother is an over protective "b1tch".

Somewhere in there conflict will result.

You see your mom has mentally picked out the woman for you from birth ... and if your girl doesn't fit the image ... dawg nyam her suppa !

And girlfriend picks up the vibe that mommy dearest can't stand her and thinks "little" of her so she will react.

In otherwords ... it is a territorial fight.

[nuhsenutten]

well my grandmother (may her soul R.I.P.)treated my mother as if she were her own daughter ....ive never had the opportunity of seeing them even raise their voices at each other .......let just hope my mother sees nothing wrong with the woman i will take to b my wife!....because me nuh inna di foolishness

[Drew]

LMAO, yo i like the way you put that gillion.

so what can be done about the situation if they don't exactly get along??

[acidblade]

Because our mother doesn't think she is good enough for you.

Because your girl thinks your mother is an over protective "b1tch".

Somewhere in there conflict will result.

You see your mom has mentally picked out the woman for you from birth ... and if your girl doesn't fit the image ... dawg nyam her suppa !

And girlfriend picks up the vibe that mommy dearest can't stand her and thinks "little" of her so she will react.

In otherwords ... it is a territorial fight.
:eusa_clap :eusa_clap :icon_lol:

[easyskanka]

LMAO, yo i like the way you put that gillion.

so what can be done about the situation if they don't exactly get along??

Try to stand back from the situation and observe it from as an objective a perspective as you are humanly able. See if you can speak to both of them while they are together in order to be impartial, making sure you are honest but tactful. This might clear the air of any misunderstandings.

[Drew]

but if we go by gillion's words (which i agree with), there is little chance of them sorting out their differences.

[nuhsenutten]

probably end up with a major quarrel .....seeing that mother didnt like the girl before getting to know her(assumption)

[nester-san]

Right now, GF and Mother stress making the big vein in my forehead pulse...

I can't manage it to RA(edited).

I am going to bed early...

[Bahama Mama]

Sounds like too much estrogen in one room to me!

All I can say is, if they are not getting along now, imagine in a situation where you and your girlfriend make it official.

Goodluck!

[acidblade]

the thing is, with me, i know who my mother will like from who she wouldn't like, so if i know she won't like the girl i'm with, i don't introduced them. i did it once and she ask me when the girl went home "Where did you find that ugly girl" :(

[Malloc-X]

why should i care what my mother thinks of my gf or that my mom hates her? if my mom doesn't like her she doesn't have to see her

[Twinkie]

the thing is, with me, i know who my mother will like from who she wouldn't like, so if i know she won't like the girl i'm with, i don't introduced them. i did it once and she ask me when the girl went home "Where did you find that ugly girl" :(
Wow that explains a lot of things, too bad I had to find out here.

Better late than never.

That would have been my question...If you know your mom won't like the girl do you just not introduce the girl you've been talking to for the past four or so years?

Acidbalde your @$$ don't even need to answer that one.

[Twinkie]

Me and my soon-to-be-mother-in-law get along well enough, she calls me to see what I been up to, if she needs anything, she knows I'm dependable etc.

Never met a mother I couldn't impress with my wifely skills.

[Jae]

Some mothers-in-law are fashioned in the fires of hell, and some are made from the dewdrops of heaven. Luckily I've never met any of the monsters before. I have had only one case where I thought the mother never liked me, however, I won her over. So much so that she was quite upset when we broke up and gave him a mighty tongue lashing for being an ***, and told him point blank that it was his fault.:icon_lol:

What I don't agree with is mothers getting in the way so much, that they start to cause problems within their offsprings' marriages. I know a case like that now. Where the wife is pregnant and she and the mother-in-law kick off in the house, poor son dunno what to do. He's just sitting on the sidelines in his kevlar vest, waiting for the brimstone and fire:eusa_snoo . I think it says somewhere in the Bible that when a man takes unto himself a wife he should go with her and forsake all others..blah di blah, I guess including his mom. Someone find the passage for me plz!!

[Babyjay]

Another thing I've noticed is that generally the fathers are more accepting of the gf of their sons than the mothers, and the mothers of the bf of their daughters. *suck teeth* The fathers more acceptin. Y do u think that's so?

[BlackCryptoKnight]

Another thing I've noticed is that generally the fathers are more accepting of the gf of their sons than the mothers, and the mothers of the bf of their daughters. *suck teeth* The fathers more acceptin. Y do u think that's so?
'Cause he's happy his son likes girls.

[BlackCryptoKnight]

Thankfully, mumsy and wifey get along famously. :p :hyper:

[Drew]

'Cause he's happy his son likes girls.LMAO. well i guess in this day and age thats something to rejoice for right. lol.

bck, help me out. isn't there a Bible scripture that says the man/son is suppose to leave his family and create a new household with a wife??

[AngelsKiss]

If there is one thing I hate is b!tchiness, for the life of me I can't understand why some women feel a need to behave that way. I guess it boils down to insecurity. It's worst when you are a parent and should be setting an example.

Thank goodness I have never had to put up with any of that crap, but then knowing me, I wouldn't be putting up with it.

[BlackCryptoKnight]

LMAO. well i guess in this day and age thats something to rejoice for right. lol.

bck, help me out. isn't there a Bible scripture that says the man/son is suppose to leave his family and create a new household with a wife??

Genesis 2:23-24 KJV

23And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

24Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

There it is.

[Drew]

yeah thanks bck, thats it.

so what you guys think, moms don't like that rule?? the idea of leaving the family and a new number 1 woman. or is it that they want the son to be their little boy for the rest of their lives.


Thank goodness I have never had to put up with any of that crap, but then knowing me, I wouldn't be putting up with it.lol, have you seen the movie monster in law??

[Lisa20]

why should i care what my mother thinks of my gf or that my mom hates her? if my mom doesn't like her she doesn't have to see her

I agree TOTALLY
:eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap

[Lisa20]

yeah thanks bck, thats it.

so what you guys think, moms don't like that rule?? the idea of leaving the family and a new number 1 woman. or is it that they want the son to be their little boy for the rest of their lives.

lol, have you seen the movie monster in law??

Drew, you are forgetting something here. More than often the son wants to be MOMMA's LITTLE boy so he will not make any effort to try and sort out the problem with them both. He might even go as far as to tell you that you need to accept anything MOMMY says, even if it was insulting.

My Grandmother, R.I.P, never liked my MOM or my Step Mom amd she made their lives a living hell. I made myself a promise when i was 11yrs that i would never ever find myself in that situation.

[Temptress]

There's usually conflict when it come to these things however the girlfren should just be respectful and not cause any episodes that will give mommy anumition and say "see didn't i tell u that she's no good"

My grandmother doesn't like any of her sons wives but its because she feels like things should be done a certain way (her way) and it eats her up because she can't go in and change the way her daughter in laws do things and she will never live it down at this point in time.

But its up to the guys to create and maintain peace cause mothers never usually realise that they are causing a roblem and wont admit that they are at fault.

[Lisa20]

What i think, is that MOTHERS should keep out of there sons LIFE. I mean if there husband's mother was all up in his life, she would never have gotten involved with him.

Explain this to me please MOMMY is a CHRISTIAN and her son isn't, He finds a nice girl to settle down with, he knows that MOMMY is never going to approve of her,until they get married,
By some twist of faith MOMMY finds out about gf, and son decides to talk to MOMMY about gf, bear in mind MOMMY WILL NEVER APPROVE, so MOMMY gives SON an Ultimatum. SON is a BIG MAN so he has to do the right thing. What is the RIGHTTHING to do??????

If the options were: Leave her or Get cut off. So SON decides to drop gf. The son has been rebelling agaisnt the mother ever since he knew he could so why not now??? Is it that the bond they, son & gf, had wasnt strong enough to withstand anything that was thrown at them?

I dont think that MOTHERS want their SONS to remain a "MOMMA's boy" instead SONS do it willingly because they think that if they don't they are DISRESPECTING their MOTHERS.

[AngelsKiss]

lol, have you seen the movie monster in law??
Nope.........................why?

[Temptress]

Monster-In-Law depicts exactly what we discussing here, u should see it

[AngelsKiss]

Monster-In-Law depicts exactly what we discussing here, u should see it
LOL...I don't need to see a movie to know that she wouldn't be having a problem with me. She would be having it with herself. Once I know she has a problem then I would make sure I am not in her way. If she wants to take it out on her son then that's fine and if he is not big enough to deal with him then he can go too:)

[Temptress]

I like that, good point:eusa_clap :eusa_clap

All we have to do it make our paths cross as little as possible, we'll only see each other if necessary. And when we see each other I'd totally be out of her way especially since I have a problem with holding my mouth:eusa_sile

[Lisa20]

LOL...I don't need to see a movie to know that she wouldn't be having a problem with me. She would be having it with herself. Once I know she has a problem then I would make sure I am not in her way. If she wants to take it out on her son then that's fine and if he is not big enough to deal with him then he can go too:)
:eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap
Thats right.........................

[BlackCryptoKnight]

What i think, is that MOTHERS should keep out of there sons LIFE. I mean if there husband's mother was all up in his life, she would never have gotten involved with.
Herein lies the irony. Many a woman who has expressed said sentiments, have transformed into "the evil mommy" themselves when they have their children. :rofl: Kinda funny how life turns out sometimes.

But still, each case is different. In some cases, mothers have very good reasons to distrust/dislike the women their sons consort with. Nuff crosses ooman deh bout. In some cases, mothers may be acting out of insecurity - they don't want to be put aside and it's tough to let go of their child who has depended on them their entire life.

A parent can't just let go and keep out of their childs life. A parent doesn't stop being a parent after the child grows up. Sure, their approach and interaction has to change, but they don't stop caring, and when you care about somebody, you want to protect them from perceived harm - whatever the cost. The son has to be cognescant of all of this, and know how to navigate. The commandment to honour your father and mother still applies after childhood ends, but it's a balancing act between that, and cleaving unto your wife to become one flesh.

[Temptress]

Herein lies the irony. Many a woman who has expressed said sentiments, have transformed into "the evil mommy" themselves when they have their children. :rofl: Kinda funny how life turns out sometimes.

But still, each case is different. In some cases, mothers have very good reasons to distrust/dislike the women their sons consort with. Nuff crosses ooman deh bout. In some cases, mothers may be acting out of insecurity - they don't want to be put aside and it's tough to let go of their child who has depended on them their entire life.

A parent can't just let go and keep out of their childs life. A parent doesn't stop being a parent after the child grows up. Sure, their approach and interaction has to change, but they don't stop caring, and when you care about somebody, you want to protect them from perceived harm - whatever the cost. The son has to be cognescant of all of this, and know how to navigate. The commandment to honour your father and mother still applies after childhood ends, but it's a balancing act between that, and cleaving unto your wife to become one flesh.

WELL SAID:eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap

[Lisa20]

Herein lies the irony. Many a woman who has expressed said sentiments, have transformed into "the evil mommy" themselves when they have their children. :rofl: Kinda funny how life turns out sometimes.

But still, each case is different. In some cases, mothers have very good reasons to distrust/dislike the women their sons consort with. Nuff crosses ooman deh bout. In some cases, mothers may be acting out of insecurity - they don't want to be put aside and it's tough to let go of their child who has depended on them their entire life.

A parent can't just let go and keep out of their childs life. A parent doesn't stop being a parent after the child grows up. Sure, their approach and interaction has to change, but they don't stop caring, and when you care about somebody, you want to protect them from perceived harm - whatever the cost. The son has to be cognescant of all of this, and know how to navigate. The commandment to honour your father and mother still applies after childhood ends, but it's a balancing act between that, and cleaving unto your wife to become one flesh.

I get wat you are saying. I mean you do have women out there that can be considered "crosses" but how can you tell that without meeting the person and getting to know them, Unless the SONS is telling his MOMMy things about the gf, which would be downright stupid, to turn his MOM agaisnt her. And if that is the cases i dont think that there was ever a relationship. Then again there are persons who sometimes unthinkly say things about other persons and it can be interpreted wrong.

[Malloc-X]

i dont understand will someone plz explain why is it important for my gf/wife and my mom to get along. the 2 never have to meet.

[acidblade]

i dont understand will someone plz explain why is it important for my gf/wife and my mom to get along. the 2 never have to meet.
:eusa_clap why is it sooooo important? will the relationship last longer?....some women would say it shows that they are the "WIFE" in the man's life. :dwl: :eusa_naug

[Lisa20]

:eusa_clap why is it sooooo important? will the relationship last longer?....some women would say it shows that they are the "WIFE" in the man's life. :dwl: :eusa_naug
I don't need to prove to my bf's mother that i am the WIFE in his life cause i already know i am.

[BlackCryptoKnight]

I don't need to prove to my bf's mother that i am the WIFE in his life cause i already know i am.
Ummm... if it's a boyfriend you have, then you're not the wife. :eusa_shif

[Drew]

i dont understand will someone plz explain why is it important for my gf/wife and my mom to get along. the 2 never have to meet.so how you planning on the wedding day??

and quite a few girls pushing to meet their boyfriends family which does include the mothers.

[Temptress]

I wonder why males never press the issues of meeting their woman’s parents, they usually avoid the thought of meeting the parents….. Why guys??

:eusa_thin

[acidblade]

I wonder why males never press the issues of meeting their woman’s parents, they usually avoid the thought of meeting the parents….. Why guys??

:eusa_thin
good question, not as big an issue with men i guess :eusa_thin

[BlackCryptoKnight]

I wonder why males never press the issues of meeting their woman’s parents, they usually avoid the thought of meeting the parents….. Why guys??

:eusa_thin
Some guys know that the girl's parents will see right though them and know that they mean their daughters no good. Some guys just aren't that into the girls to want to have anything to do with their parents. Parents usually become important to meet when there is intent for a long term relationship. If that's not on the agenda, then meeting parents just adds another layer of complexity when breakup time comes around - especially if the parents actually do like the guy.

[Lisa20]

Some guys know that the girl's parents will see right though them and know that they mean their daughters no good. Some guys just aren't that into the girls to want to have anything to do with their parents. Parents usually become important to meet when there is intent for a long term relationship. If that's not on the agenda, then meeting parents just adds another layer of complexity when breakup time comes around - especially if the parents actually do like the guy.


The same should go for the guy's parents.


Ummm... if it's a boyfriend you have, then you're not the wife. WIfe here was not meant literally.

[Temptress]

Some guys know that the girl's parents will see right though them and know that they mean their daughters no good. Some guys just aren't that into the girls to want to have anything to do with their parents. Parents usually become important to meet when there is intent for a long term relationship. If that's not on the agenda, then meeting parents just adds another layer of complexity when breakup time comes around - especially if the parents actually do like the guy.

Point well taken, so is it safe to say then that if a guy has no interest in introducing his girl to his mother that he is not serious about the chick and does not plan on taking the relationship to the next level?:icon_ques ?

[BlackCryptoKnight]

Point well taken, so is it safe to say then that if a guy has no interest in introducing his girl to his mother that he is not serious about the chick and does not plan on taking the relationship to the next level?:icon_ques ?
That's just one possibility. There could be other reasons. For example, maybe his parents aren't all that nice, and he doesn't want to scare off his lady. Best bet is to have an honest discussion with him about it.

[Temptress]

:eusa_whis
That's just one possibility. There could be other reasons. For example, maybe his parents aren't all that nice, and he doesn't want to scare off his lady. Best bet is to have an honest discussion with him about it.

You hear that girls, if your main squeeze hasn't introduced u to his folks maybe he's protecting you because his peeps are not very welcoming......

[Drew]

I wonder why males never press the issues of meeting their woman’s parents, they usually avoid the thought of meeting the parents….. Why guys?? not sure, but i just didn't want to meet them at all. ended up doing it to make ma girl happy and now her parents love me.

thing is, the father was young once, so you know seh he's going to see through me if i was acting like a good boy when i'm a bad *** one. and no, i'm not reffering to myself.


Point well taken, so is it safe to say then that if a guy has no interest in introducing his girl to his mother that he is not serious about the chick and does not plan on taking the relationship to the next level? ?like bck said, maybe the monsta will run her and start talking all kinds of bad things to the son behind the girls back, which can hurt the relationship.

You hear that girls, if your main squeeze hasn't introduced u to his folks maybe he's protecting you because his peeps are not very welcoming......
if you met one parent, i wouldn't worry girls, but if you haven't met both, well. RUN!!!!!!!!!!!

[Lisa20]

So do most men push their gf to meet their Mother?

[Drew]

So do most men push their gf to meet their Mother?don't know about most, i know i wasn't interested in meeting her parents. thing is, i thought my gf wanted us to meet each other parents a little too soon.

[Temptress]

So meeting the parents on both sides can be used as a symbol of your commitment to each other in some cases, however they are those -- like my coworker here who is totally up for meeting a girls parents though he usually has ulterior motives. He claims to know all 3 of his girlfriends parents on a first name basis and he feels that meeting a girls parents is totally necessary in order to be the successful hoe that he is today as “meeting the folks give women somewhat a sense of security in the relationship especially if their beau is adored by her mother and vice versa.”

Consequently women more push the issue because when we link up with a guy we usually envision ourselves being married to that guy and so on…. And the 1st step towards that is usually meeting the guys parents and making a positive impression on them. I heading in the right direction with this??

[BlackCryptoKnight]

So meeting the parents on both sides can be used as a symbol of your commitment to each other in some cases, however they are those -- like my coworker here who is totally up for meeting a girls parents though he usually has ulterior motives. He claims to know all 3 of his girlfriends parents on a first name basis and he feels that meeting a girls parents is totally necessary in order to be the successful hoe that he is today as “meeting the folks give women somewhat a sense of security in the relationship especially if their beau is adored by her mother and vice versa.”

Consequently women more push the issue because when we link up with a guy we usually envision ourselves being married to that guy and so on…. And the 1st step towards that is usually meeting the guys parents and making a positive impression on them. I heading in the right direction with this??

Yup. What you say is true.

[Drew]

sounds good, go on...

[Lisa20]

Its funny but i really didnt want to meet my Mother-in-law so not every female push for that

[Temptress]

Its funny but i really didnt want to meet my Mother-in-law so not every female push for that

Why wouldn’t you want to meet the person(s) liable for the magnificent hunk of joy that has filled your life with ecstasy and bliss:icon_ques :icon_ques :confused:

[Drew]

so why are the girlfriend's parents so cool with the boyfriend??

[BlackCryptoKnight]

so why are the girlfriend's parents so cool with the boyfriend??
That isn't always the case.

[Twinkie]

Hol on hol on, my $0.02

Majority of the times g/f's moms loves the daughter's b/f.

I've heard of down right too many cases where after a year, two years even four years of talking to this dude, and never meeting the mom, you come to find out you are NOT the wife.

In true form, I'd like to imagine after say a year or so, if you're skeptical, you'd introduce me to your mom. Even if she is Cruella Deville, you'd warn me and I'd know after this year, what to expect upon sed introduction.

Maybe I dream too much. Maybe if I had met mommy-in-law. certain things would be different now. I truly believe so...


Yes gentle people tek me on now. Me weddi weddi weddi weddi weddi

[Drew]

That isn't always the case.thats true. how about majority??

[BlackCryptoKnight]

thats true. how about majority??
I can't say for sure. A lot depends on the personalities of the individuals involved. The example was given earlier of a guy who relished meeting parents so he could charm them and get easier access to his target. Maybe in some of the cases where the parents love the boyfriends, that's what's going on - he's running his charm game on them. In some cases, it's genuine, and the folks really have reason to like the dude. In some cases the mothers may like the dude, but the fathers don't. Many fathers don't like any guy their daughter brings home, because nobody can be good enough for his little girl. You can't really generalize, because each case is different.

[Drew]

i see i'm very fortunate then. my girlfriend's parents love me. even the grandma. :cool:
my pops cool with her. but mom on the other hand. i'm living in fear of making my mom meet ma gf.

[Foxy Kay]

I guess mothers feel like they are being replaced... meaning>> there has always been a strong bond between and mother and her son... most mothers i know will do everything for their son like: clean their room, wash their clothes, cook dinner (thier sons fav dishes, in which the sons love) etc... so, when the gf comes, the sons... is too busy with the gf and spends so much time with the gf ... that is my opinion...i hope it makes sense.... its 12:21AM

[Temptress]

i see i'm very fortunate then. my girlfriend's parents love me. even the grandma. :cool:
my pops cool with her. but mom on the other hand. i'm living in fear of making my mom meet ma gf.

Consider yourself lucky as this is not the case for many

[Lisa20]

Why wouldn’t you want to meet the person(s) liable for the magnificent hunk of joy that has filled your life with ecstasy and bliss:icon_ques :icon_ques :confused:

Probably cause the first few words out of his mouht was "she isnt going to approve of you"!!! I think might have been a verrrrrrrrrry contributing factor?!

That was like from the begning of the relationship, it had nothing to do with my attitide, my personality or my background, it was just her attitude towards every women in all her sons life.

So instead of wanting to meet her i thought i would wait until she wanted to meet me.

[acidblade]

So instead of wanting to meet her i thought i would wait until she wanted to meet me.
:eusa_clap some girls jus nuff and want to meet mommy to quick and the relationship don't reach nuh where

it had nothing to do with my attitide, my personality or my background
those things can be the reason some men don't want to introduce the girl to mommy. why be with a girl that has bad attitude, personality and background you ask?...................:icon_mrgr :eusa_whis

[Temptress]

Probably cause the first few words out of his mouht was "she isnt going to approve of you"!!! I think might have been a verrrrrrrrrry contributing factor?!

That was like from the begning of the relationship, it had nothing to do with my attitide, my personality or my background, it was just her attitude towards every women in all her sons life.

So instead of wanting to meet her i thought i would wait until she wanted to meet me.

Makes sense....:cool:

[Lisa20]

:eusa_clap some girls jus nuff and want to meet mommy to quick and the relationship don't reach nuh where

those things can be the reason some men don't want to introduce the girl to mommy. why be with a girl that has bad attitude, personality and background you ask?...................:icon_mrgr :eusa_whis


but my question is why be with her in the first place???

[acidblade]

but my question is why be with her in the first place???
:eusa_thin :eusa_thin :cool:

[Temptress]

If she's a jump off then let her know it str8 up from the get go so that if she comes to you in the future with these demands you can remind her that your affiliation its not that serious so she's not to expect those things unless the both of you agree change the rules and have an actualy relationship

[Lisa20]

If she's a jump off then let her know it str8 up from the get go so that if she comes to you in the future with these demands you can remind her that your affiliation its not that serious so she's not to expect those things unless the both of you agree change the rules and have an actualy relationship

Would you settle for a JUMP OFF?

[Temptress]

Would you settle for a JUMP OFF?

NO I don’t aim low, however there are some women/girls who would settle for being the jump off just to have a piece of their “knight” and hope that somewhere along the trail the terms of the relationship will change and they will eventually be the wife.

[Lisa20]

Thats is so much crap. I think that women now-a-days need to put more value on themselves. I would never settle for a jump off. NOT WORHT MY TIME.

I also think that most most mothers need to meet their sons gf before they make a decision that could lead to alot of unhappiness. Sons also need to stop and think logically about a decision like that (where mommy hasnt met my gf, and has already decided that she doesnt approve) and make a rational decision. I mean how is it possible that after dating a woman for more that 2 yrs, you allow your mother, because she is your MOTHER, to influence you to leave her.

I think that by now you ought to know her good habits and her bad habits, and i also think that if you werent happy with them you wouldn't still be in that relationship

[Twinkie]

Listen there are men out there that have these girls talking to for a looooooooong time, dedication and commitment to each other, real, bordering marriage, and they STILL, don't think an intro to mommy is necessary.

If me and a dude, have an understanding that is jus a squeeze thing, then me nuh want know none o yuh family.

For the women that know what they are getting into, they RARELY if NEVER have a need to meet mommy.

Please! Try again.

P.S. allow me to reiterate, there are women out here that don't want strings, jus sex, they know all that intro to family business is not in the deal so those women are exempt from this discussion.

CARRY ON!!

[Arch_Angel]

Who knows a woman better than another woman? We already know guys don't have a clue about women, as we have discussed many times. So hence, the mother is there to help her son choose a good woman to marry. :p

[Twinkie]

You need to try again too. Does your mother know how your stomach flips when you and the girl are near, or how much your hearts race if you think she's in dangeer?

Does your mother feel the climax you experience when you are together? Is yor mom able to cook peppered steak and long grain rice like that for you?

NO!

[BlackCryptoKnight]

AK you full a dung like a constipated elephant..
That was unnecessary.


You need to try again too. Does your mother know how your stomach flips when you and the girl are near, or how much your hearts race if you think she's in dangeer?

Does your mother feel the climax you experience when you are together? Is yor mom able to cook peppered steak and long grain rice like that for you?

NO!

It's highly likely, that parents are way more experienced in relationship matters than their children. They have much valuable advice and guidance to provide. They know more about life, they know more about people. They may have made mistakes they don't want their children to make.

Some people just don't like the fact that parents will "spoil their fun".

[AngelsKiss]

AK you full a dung like a constipated elephant..

Oops I think you have me confused with someone else. In any event that wasn't nice at all.

[Nokia]

AK you full a dung like a constipated elephant..

was that called for? i really hope the mods did somthing about this, we can not have these kind of behavior at caribyard where people insulting others like this. :eusa_naug

[Arch_Angel]

Oops I think you have me confused with someone else. In any event that wasn't nice at all.Ohh, is me she calling so. Was wondering since you didn't post. lol

Come come Twinkie dearest. You can express yourself much better than that, without having persons telling you that it was uncalled for. ;)

Why such passion about the topic? It seems like it hitting close to home for you. You wanna talk about it? You can PM me. I'm a good consellor. (or I try to be) :D

[Madhacker]

When I first met my mother in law I was really in for a treat she cuss me dog rotten I heard all the letters of the curse word alphabet. I was miss judge someone being carring news about me to momsy before we met I must admit some of it was true (they told momsy I was a playa). all this happened in 2002 She told me not to see her daughter again :( so I avoided her daughter in public chat in private. But what actually win her over is the fact that I never given her a bad face even after the incident I always smile and greet her even if she dont want to (yes mi beg fren SO!!) eventually mommy lighten up I got my passport and visa and now I am di boss can asky momsy fi any ting

[Twinkie]

My apologies EVERYONE.

It WAS meant to be a joke. Iguesss it was lost on everyone. I would edit it, but it's been quoted so many times.

p.s. when have I ever been insultive to anyone? A_A a me doop.