Women & Men do you feel

[Pondadat]

Women & Men do you feel it necessary to be with your mate constantly? Do you need to know what that person is doing all the time? Do you have to go the same places such as parties, chat rooms, forums and have the same friends. Or do you like being independent and have your own space and own friends and own things to do?

[Drew]

i like being on my own a little, i believe both parties should have their freedom. but i also believe in involving her in a few of my activities every now and then.

[Greatis]

hmm that's a tricky question. I like my freedom as most men do. We like our time to chill with our friends without being called every second where are you. But I also like to do the simple stuff to gether so it's a balance for me.

[Drew]

can i actually tell you that i like my woman checking up on me. i don't kno, i guess i just like the fact that she cares about what i'm up to.

[Pondadat]

i like being on my own a little, i believe both parties should have their freedom. but i also believe in involving her in a few of my activities every now and then.


Every now and then (lol) how often is that. Once a year (joke) :icon_mrgr

[Cocoa]

Women & Men do you feel it necessary to be with your mate constantly? Do you need to know what that person is doing all the time? Do you have to go the same places such as parties, chat rooms, forums and have the same friends. Or do you like being independent and have your own space and own friends and own things to do?OH Lawd, you ladies on a roll a tell you.

No like my own space sometimes. Sometimes just want to be left alone. Then there are times I want to be with him allll the time. I probably don't have to know exactly where he's going or who he's with but communicate is the key for me.

Following him around? Fi wha? Mi not a watch man.

[Greatis]

Have same friends never saw that. No star. That is one heap a trouble. I will talk to her friends yes but not on a yuh know overly friendly basis hi bye how are you.

It can cause a lot of problems if her friends are your friends or his friends are her friends.

[Drew]

you're a smart man greatis. you have your friends, she has hers. anything between that is problems.

but be carefull about that rule greatis, my little lady wasn't so happy with me when i told her i didn't want to meet her friends. oh well.....

[Arch_Angel]

I really don't mind if my woman checks up on me asking where I am. To me it shows she cares. For guys who usually deal with more than 1 woman at a time, this wouldn't be a good thing for them.

I don't mind being with her constantly. After all, I am hoping to spend the rest of my life with her. So I better get used to being with her constantly.

Don't need to know what she is doing constantly. That would make it seem like I don't trust her or something.
She invites me to a lot of events that she goes to. And I do the same. Don't see each other much during the week, so it is something we look forward to.

[Greatis]

Don't see each other much during the week, so it is something we look forward to.

Ahhh there is the difference between us Arch. You don't see her much during the week. ;)

[Drew]

so how often you see your special one greatis??

[Greatis]

so how often you see your special one greatis??

:icon_redf

Well hmmm I see her on the phone almost everyday :icon_mrgr

[Drew]

how touching. :rolleyes: just playing. :icon_mrgr

[Arch_Angel]

:icon_redf

Well hmmm I see her on the phone almost everyday :icon_mrgrHmmmmmmmmmmmmmm :eusa_thin

[philben]

what's that "Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm" for AA?

[Drew]

wondering myself.

[Arch_Angel]

Err, uhmm, well it's directed more at Greatis. His post got me thinking. ;)

Don't look into it too hard guys. lol

[Greatis]

hmmm yeah don't look into it too hard it may not be true. I may have been kidding :eusa_snoo

[Gillion]

I can't stand the ever present mate. I hate having my mate around me all the time.

I am moody... I like to be alone alot. Somtimes to listen to music, code, create, draw or paint.
or read.

I will be in the house for a week and not say a word to you. But I am not angry or upset. I am just silent sometimes.

Ergo, if my woman doesn't know how to leave me alone or make like she is invisible. She gonna be in for a WORLD OF TROUBLE.

I will most certainly expect her to tell me when to leave her alone... and I will gladly do so because it means more time for me by myself to go play with the kids, tweak my car or take photographs of plants.

[TRUBBLE]

I would have to say that I;m in between.I like to go places with my man, but not everywhere, and i love his company, but i know when to say ,ok time for me to be by myself!!

[Bashment Girl]

Women & Men do you feel it necessary to be with your mate constantly? Do you need to know what that person is doing all the time? Do you have to go the same places such as parties, chat rooms, forums and have the same friends. Or do you like being independent and have your own space and own friends and own things to do?

No that's insane! I call that insecurity. No matter how much you love someone, consantly having to know exactly what they're doing, where they're going etc. that means you worried about something. If you're worried, then you don't trust them. (I think you all know where I am going with this lol ;) )

For me now, I think it's better to let people be who they have to be in order to stay happy. If I can't live with their actions, or life style then we aren't compatible. Therefore my man can do whatever he wants as long as he isn't hurting himself, me or sleeping around!