Can Men & Women be

[Pondadat]

Can Men & Women be just friends? Can you be just friends with the opposite sex? Do you have a problem with your mate having alot of friends of the opposite sex?

[Drew]

of course men and women can be friends. i've had my best friend(female) for years. yea i have a problem if my lady knows to much guys. don't know why, just prefer it she had some male and some female.

[Cocoa]

No problem with that. Just have boundaries and limits. Know your friend different from your lover.

[Greatis]

I am friends with a lot of females. No biggie in that. We party together, I am kinda the quarrel board but it's all good to have female friends. It helps me out in more ways than one. The guys will know what i mean *wink* *wink*

[philben]

So what do you mean?

[Cocoa]

The guys will know what i mean *wink* *wink*Well I ain't a guy so please explain.

[Drew]

lol, yea i know what u mean. :eusa_shhh

[Greatis]

Well hmmm let's just say that you learn alot.

[philben]

That's not enough!

[Greatis]

hehe let's just say that being friends with a female you get inside her skin. You see things even her boyfriend doesn't see for months maybe years down the road. You get an intimate understanding of the female Physche/Mind whatever you want to name it.

Of course not all females are the same. Oh Damn I have already said too much. :eusa_shhh :eusa_sile

[Drew]

u shouldn't have used the phrase underneath her skin. :eusa_snoo

female friends help you out. they give you good advice about what to do when it comes to the ladies.

[philben]

keep going

[Greatis]

@ drew I did not mean literally :eusa_snoo

[philben]

yeah, "under her skin" is politically incorrect!

[Arch_Angel]

I have a lot of female friends. But my interaction with my female friends had to become limited as I went into a relationship. Also let my girlfriend know about my female friends.

And to answer the question, yeah a guy and a lady can be just friends. I have been friends my female friends for a long time now.

For me, the problem isn't about how many male friends she has. But as long as the interaction with them (like going out) is limited.

You have to understand, that once you enter into a relationship with someone else, your freedom that you had when you were single is no longer there. You can't have that same freedom in a relationship, otherwise you are going to run into problems.

[Cocoa]

I have a lot of female friends. But my interaction with my female friends had to become limited as I went into a relationship. Also let my girlfriend know about my female friends.

And to answer the question, yeah a guy and a lady can be just friends. I have been friends my female friends for a long time now.

For me, the problem isn't about how many male friends she has. But as long as the interaction with them (like going out) is limited.

You have to understand, that once you enter into a relationship with someone else, your freedom that you had when you were single is no longer there. You can't have that same freedom in a relationship, otherwise you are going to run into problems. :eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap

[philben]

I second you JB

[Drew]

AA sounds like a serious man when he comes to his relationships. is your gf a member AA??

[Greatis]

AA sounds like a serious man when he comes to his relationships. is your gf a member AA??

:icon_mrgr :icon_mrgr good question. Him being very diplomatic hehe

[philben]

don't set the man up! not fair (and I am not his gf)

[Arch_Angel]

don't set the man up! not fair (and I am not his gf)
Thank You PhilBen! :)

[philben]

you're welcome man!

[Drew]

i wasn't trying to set any1 up at all. my apologies if it seemed that way.

[Arch_Angel]

i wasn't trying to set any1 up at all. my apologies if it seemed that way.
Not a problem Drew. And to answer your question, no, my girlfriend isn't a member of this site. :)

[Cocoa]

You didn't have to answer A_A.