why do woman behave so naive at times?

[thuglife]

there are girls who will know that you are a player and still get involve with you,because deep down they think they can change you,when this does not work they cry and say that you hurt them,why do they think they are different from the other girls you had before them?

[Malloc-X]

I have been asking this question for quite a while now, i am lookin forward for the responses

[BlackCryptoKnight]

there are girls who will know that you are a player and still get involve with you,because deep down they think they can change you,when this does not work they cry and say that you hurt them,why do they think they are different from the other girls you had before them?
Why be a player? Some girls actually care about, and love the guys they go with. Why betray them? Who is really in the wrong - the girl who gives a player a chance, or the player who treats the girl like dirt?

[AngelsKiss]

Why be a player? Some girls actually care about, and love the guys they go with. Why betray them? Who is really in the wrong - the girl who gives a player a chance, or the player who treats the girl like dirt?
It's not so much about who is in the wrong, but the one thing ppl should learn, whether male or female is that you cannot change anyone if they themselves do not want to change. Change must come from within.

As for why some women believe they can change a man or any person for that matter boils down to maturity and experience. A mature experience woman won't try to change a man, she is going to either accept him for who he is or give him the boot.

[BlackCryptoKnight]

It's not so much about who is in the wrong, but the one thing ppl should learn, whether male or female is that you cannot change anyone if they themselves do not want to change. Change must come from within.

As for why some women believe they can change a man or any person for that matter boils down to maturity and experience. A mature experience woman won't try to change a man, she is going to either accept him for who he is or give him the boot.
True dat. It's just that this attitude of "you knew I was a player" is bandied about as if somehow, bad behaviour on the part of the "player" is justified because of prior knowledge. It isn't. It isn't a case where the only person having issues is the "naive" woman. The "player" has issues too.

[AngelsKiss]

True dat. It's just that this attitude of "you knew I was a player" is bandied about as if somehow, bad behaviour on the part of the "player" is justified because of prior knowledge. It isn't. It isn't a case where the only person having issues is the "naive" woman. The "player" has issues too.

I am not saying the player isn'tan issue. However, the question was about women who think they can ange men. The player issue is just as bad as the woman who tries to change a man. Frankly speaking, men who claim to be players are just insecure little boys who try to feel big thru their manhood.

[acidblade]

somebody call mi name?????? :eusa_shif yea man the player is to be blamed, how can u hurt a girl that believed in you after knowing that you are a player :rolleyes:

[Manu]

I am not saying the player isn'tan issue. However, the question was about women who think they can ange men. The player issue is just as bad as the woman who tries to change a man. Frankly speaking, men who claim to be players are just insecure little boys who try to feel big thru their manhood.

That is true AK. When they grow up...they'll understand that is more to a woman or women for that matter than %^*(%#

[acidblade]

That is true AK. When they grow up...they'll understand that is more to a woman or women for that matter than %^*(%#
:eusa_thin :eusa_thin :eusa_thin

[Master E]

The Question You Should Ponder Is, Would You Like To Be Played?

[BlackCryptoKnight]

I am not saying the player isn'tan issue. However, the question was about women who think they can ange men.
Fair enough. But many times, the "players" are the ones who convine the women that they will fulfill whatever fantasy the women have - including that of reforming and settling down. It's just ironic that a "player" would argue "but you knew I was a player" after he's already run his game on her and deceived her into thinking that he would be the kind of guy she really wanted.

[rodalembs]

Some men are players because of their immaturity and insecurity, they cannnot deal with the requirments of a commited relationship. The thing is the table will turn, as the will come upon some who they really like and is then yu see player turn into puppy.

As aqua say, consider if what you do , you would liek to be done to you.

[Izemi-Clem]

Hail

It is natural for any person to expect that the same level of interest and emotional attachment they place to someone they are involved with, that they should expect the same commitment in return.
We are all emotional being and insecure on some level, regardless of who you are.

The act of "betrayal" as it is seen, affects us (man and woman) on emotional levels as it shakes not only our confidence in ourselves but makes us reconsider our own self worth. Because after all this is how we have been socialized; to believe that we all are unique and have something inherently special about ourselves.

Rejection forces us to question ourselves as to whether or not we are only special by our own standards and now begin to worry about how the world or other people view us. It is the immature and under-developed persons who focuses on how they are perceived and how they match up to the standards of everyone else rather than look inward and set their own standards and expectations.

At the same time any woman who enters a relationship with someone who describes himself as a player has to consider her own reasons and expectations are from such a relationship but at the same time I believe the so called player has the responsibility to assess the "playee" and determine whether or not they (playee) can handle such a relationship.

I believe the responsibility lies more with the player because he is less involved emotionally, or supposed to be. And as a player he must realize that relationships are dynamic and how fast feelings and emotions change over time.

If they can't handle it, no matter how pleasing to the eye, no matter how much she likes you.
Let it go, be the bigger person for both your own sakes and everyone else who has to lend their shoulder to cry on, or otherwise hear the long drawn out cass-cass story (repeatedly).

Izemi-Clem

[emux]

personally the right woman can change nuff things about a man

[pogi_2nr]

True dat. It's just that this attitude of "you knew I was a player" is bandied about as if somehow, bad behaviour on the part of the "player" is justified because of prior knowledge. It isn't. It isn't a case where the only person having issues is the "naive" woman. The "player" has issues too.
Sometimes these ladies ask for it.

I have no problem telling these girls nothing can gwan for them and running them.
They tend to only stay pissed for a minute then come back.. at which point in time
I consider them to be well warned so you just take what you want and continue on
with other ladies.

[lillian]

Sometimes these women are in denial and they are willing to compromise their standards to suit the fellow. As Emux said the right woman can change a lot of things about a man, but while that is true; the fact that change has to come from within remains the same.

A woman who will settle for second best is not only insecure but also has little self esteem.

[nuhsenutten]

scenario :

i have a brejrin well known player type ......good
now there is this female who has had her eyes on him for ages ...y me nuh kno.

neway said guy was involved with her best friend they broke up ......guy then entered into another relationship with another of her friends agian it didnt work out ...(naturally)

dude walks around with "father whore " on the back of his t-shirts

female decides to start something going good till one day she catches him making out with her neighbour ..... and she have the heart fi vex wid the yute

can somebody tell me what the heck she was thinking plz...me need fi understand!

[Xenocrates]

:icon_arro The answer to close the thread

Nuhsehnutten, pay attention son:


Women are attracted to men who have a certain exhuberance of male machismo (that's why nice guys finish last).


"Players" constantly have this machismo on display.


Just like how some guys are attracted to blindingly hot women who they KNOW aren't good for them, women are likewise attracted to blindingly MACHISMO men who they KNOW aren't good for them.


In a guy's case, one would say that he's thinking with his genitals.
In a woman's case, one would say that she's thinking with her emotions.

Both sexes are guilty of it. Lots of guys get with hot women who have serious emotional or familial baggage. How many men here have almost been fooled by a ridiculously attractive woman? It's the same thing with these girls.

That's just nature @ work. There's really no mystery to ponder here.

[acidblade]

:eusa_booh how mi fi tun gal clown mi naw do that:eusa_booh

[easyskanka]

:icon_arro NSN. It is a well known fact that for some inexplicable reason best known to themselves, a lot of women, even intellectual ones, go for the rudie type of guy, and not with the intention to change them either, but because many women/girls just wanna have fun...and this is their way of accepting a challenge.

[BlackCryptoKnight]

(that's why nice guys finish last).


Here we go again. :rolleyes:

[acidblade]

:icon_arro NSN. It is a well known fact that for some inexplicable reason best known to themselves, a lot of women, even intellectual ones, go for the rudie type of guy, and not with the intention to change them either, but because many women/girls just wanna have fun...and this is their way of accepting a challenge.
:eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap :eusa_clap

[Xenocrates]

Here we go again. Aye Caramba :rolleyes:

- Fixed. ;)

I'll bill you later.

[BlackCryptoKnight]

- Fixed. ;)

I'll bill you later.

Aye caramba. :rolleyes:

[nuhsenutten]

Here we go again. :rolleyes:

u tired of the statement dont:D

[BlackCryptoKnight]

u tired of the statement dont:D
Quite so. :rolleyes:

[nuhsenutten]

Quite so. :rolleyes:

a dont want u come spoil up me name u kno ......but nuh bother ban me cause me tek offense zeen:eusa_hand

[tiffany]

here's what i think..both sexes love challenges,

guy likes girl who's hard to get.

girl likes guy who's hard to get to stay.

there..problem solved

[Xenocrates]

It's not about challenges my dear. It's about the most basic predications of human psychology. Men are drawn to women in their purest form, women to men in their purest form - irrespective of other variables that may deem either fit for partnership. "Pure" here refers to the degree to which they approximate the propensities of their sexuality.

Thus, in that context, the "purest" man is ego-centric, while the purest woman is docile and feminate. That's why "go-getter" women aren't very attractive to the average man, and also why "nice guys" aren't very attractive to the average woman. These propensities take on characteristics from the opposite sex that would make the person exuding said characteristic less "pure" as either male or female.

It's the same reason why effeminate men repulse men and tom-boyish women cause their fellow females to stare in perplexity. These are all functions of our ID playing out. There's no logic in the reaction. It's all animal instinct.

[Manu]

Some people tend to forget that we are infact animals....first and foremost.

[easyskanka]

Some people tend to forget that we are infact animals....first and foremost.

Many people use this type of statement to carry out the worst types of behavior. :eusa_pray

[Manu]

Many people use this type of statement to carry out the worst types of behavior. :eusa_pray


True.... but we still tend to forget. Our biggest differentiation is the development of our cerebral lobe which makes us able to control our primal instincts but still..as animals...we do have primitive urges.

[Gillion]

True.... but we still tend to forget. Our biggest differentiation is the development of our cerebral lobe which makes us able to control our primal instincts but still..as animals...we do have primitive urges.

cerebral lobe ?

sigh..............

[Jae]

why do some woman behave so naive at times?

[acidblade]

why do some woman behave so naive at times?
a di whole a unno :rolleyes:

[nuhsenutten]

a di whole a unno :rolleyes:


u see it yute........a exclude themselves:icon_twis

[easyskanka]

True.... but we still tend to forget. Our biggest differentiation is the development of our cerebral lobe which makes us able to control our primal instincts but still..as animals...we do have primitive urges.

Your use of the word 'animals' in connection with humans gives most real animals a bad name...lol. We really can't have it both ways...either we are created in God's image and are mentally and spiritually higher than animals, or else we are free to blame our worse than animals behavior on primal urges. Whichever you personally decide to choose...please be aware that the true God will bring us all into the judgement. :eusa_pray :)

[Master E]

Acidblade your not a player so stop boasting
We all know your not a player.
Bragging that your a player = Less Girls
Acting like a Player = MORE GIRLS

[Manu]

A wha dis???....

Lol.......

[acidblade]

Acidblade your not a player so stop boasting
We all know your not a player.
Bragging that your a player = Less Girls
Acting like a Player = MORE GIRLS
:rofl: :rotflm: :dwl: :haha: true

[Twinkie]

A whatek some bwoy...?

Blade yuh signature a tek life deh doah!!


__________________
:eusa_booh Master E, Don't Leave Your Girl Roun Me, True Player For Real Ask Puff Daddy :eusa_booh

[Manu]

Blade...it's "ask my n*gga Pharrel".......

*sighs*....

Really fail to see what the hoopla is about your sig still....

[acidblade]

Blade...it's "ask my n*gga Pharrel".......

*sighs*....

Really fail to see what the hoopla is about your sig still....
was Master E in the song Mr. Manu? NO, so what does that mean? i changed up the words to how i wanted it right?...........see and blind nuh yute.

[Twinkie]

Really fail to see what the hoopla is about your sig still....
:snoring: :snoring: :snoring: :snoring:

Some people boring eeeh!!

[Manu]

:snoring: :snoring: :snoring: :snoring:

Some people boring eeeh!!

Like yourself eeeh Twinks? Bwoy A tell yu......

Change up the song to include Puff Daddy????

You flap on all accounts my yute....lame lame lame.

Puffy nuh inna di song. Puffy never name puffy at the time. My God...and really try defend it. Then yu have that one that just love...you know...I'll stop. :eusa_ange

[Twinkie]

Like yourself eeeh Twinks? Bwoy A tell yu......
Guilty pig...stop oink me name nuh!!

[Malloc-X]

wtf wtf wtf wtf will u guys top arguin and get back to the topic. women behave naive because they really dont have a lot of sense when they are young, is when they arre older and learn from their mistakes then them have sense. therea are few exceptions though. u should hear some of the lies they beleive

[nester-san]

Being a woman yourself, I guess you are very qualified to answer?

[Manu]

Being a woman yourself, I guess you are very qualified to answer?

:rofl: :rotflm: :dwl:

I gonna iggy Twinks. She dyam annoying man!

[acidblade]

Being a woman yourself, I guess you are very qualified to answer?
:haha: :haha: :haha:

[Malloc-X]

Being a woman yourself, I guess you are very qualified to answer?

i thought u guys already had ur fun with that

[KriTikaL]

women behave naive because if they don't want the world population to take a drastic slip, they have to keep up appearances so that men will actually BELIEVE *laughing fit* they're smarter, its all part of the plan for the uprising... lol headquarters is gonna kill me for that last but its time y'all knew 4reel...:icon_twis enjoy the time you have left men

[KriTikaL]

4serious tho, more time when i am naive its because i KNO the truth but i don't WANT it, the truth hurts sometimes too much for my fragile heart to bare... my bravery has increased nuff since my last birthday tho, but i'm not...
NAIVE |<----------------/--------->| REALISTIC here yet, i'm more at the slash.

[Manu]

4serious tho, more time when i am naive its because i KNO the truth but i don't WANT it, the truth hurts sometimes too much for my fragile heart to bare... my bravery has increased nuff since my last birthday tho, but i'm not...
NAIVE |<----------------/--------->| REALISTIC here yet, i'm more at the slash.


wow.... a real woman...ready to admit it!!!

[KriTikaL]

not concerned with "looking good" anymore if we can see things as they really ARE we're better able to asess how they SHOULD be...
:D i growing smart eeeeeee

[screw]

How many "players" do you know, who have reacted rather well after they themselves have been played?

[acidblade]

How many "players" do you know, who have reacted rather well after they themselves have been played?
1 .Master E I'm doing It Again

[KriTikaL]

How many "players" do you know, who have reacted rather well after they themselves have been played?
not the one i punished thats for shur :icon_lol:

[Master E]

1 .Master E I'm doing It Again
Look your really pissin me of will you ever get a life?
:clue:

[Manu]

LOL...AB nah mke nuh frenz at all.....

[acidblade]

LOL...AB nah mke nuh frenz at all.....
:icon_mrgr :hyper:

[KriTikaL]

unu lef mi bredrin nuh... yow AB nuh watch NUH face! :eusa_hand
:eusa_booh shat mi ah guh shat dem, tell dem fi gweh :eusa_booh

[Master E]

unu lef mi bredrin nuh... yow AB nuh watch NUH face! :eusa_hand
:eusa_booh shat mi ah guh shat dem, tell dem fi gweh :eusa_booh
Why are you eager to stand up for someone who calls hate on himself?

[acidblade]

Why are you eager to stand up for someone who calls hate on himself?
yute if yuh nuh have nutten to contribute to the topic, shut yuh mouth ya man. mi nuh gay yuh hear.

[Manu]

:eusa_whis



































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[Waseemah]

Manu.........stop waste space nuh.....a dem summn A_A fi delete,

and Master E - how yuh deh pon the man name suh?.......yuh see him a bring nuh hate pon himself....new thread....why are some men sooooo naive at times?

[Manu]

Bwoy Wassemah...if you never seh nutten....mi woulda start look to the Heavens....cos God woulda muss a come.

[Waseemah]

gwey man.......finga mek fi type n e thing.......and you wouldn't did feel good if you never ansa me so you just as bad as mi :icon_twis

[Manu]

So if finga mek fi type anything...hop off a mi post dem. The man send mi the link fi show me the thread....and mi a laugh after him. You just nuff....admit it...

[acidblade]

Quite So. :)

[Waseemah]

pot a cuss kettle......nubaddy nuh nuff like you, "yuh naive"

[Manu]

I guess the point of the thread about women being naive isn't limted to relationships after all :eusa_whis

[Waseemah]

pooor pooooooooor Manu....how you have so much time for me? weh yuh girl deh?

[Twinkie]

pooor pooooooooor Manu....how you have so much time for me? weh yuh girl deh?
:eusa_whis

where is Lady MC??

[Manu]

Time fi yu? nuh flatter yourself! Weh your man deh? It seems...oh nevermind. You pointless. Done argue wid yu! Iggy you rass now ya!


LadyMC is quite ok. I'll be seeing her shortly...

[Waseemah]

Quite so....quite so...............come mek we stop di f....ry Manu before AB get jealous

[Manu]

Mi ago teef Bmobile slogan.....

"It feels good"
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v354/MC_Manu/wassemah.jpg

[Waseemah]

They can't keep a good woman down......bullet bullet bullet:eusa_pray

[KriTikaL]

Why are you eager to stand up for someone who calls hate on himself?
cuz.........:eusa_thin ah mi tugs dat :eusa_eh: :icon_ques :icon_ques :icon_ques

[KriTikaL]

So if finga mek fi type anything...hop off a mi post dem. The man send mi the link fi show me the thread....and mi a laugh after him. You just nuff....admit it...
:eusa_clap agree'd.................. :eusa_shif lawd me hope she nuh run me dung...............:icon_eek:

[Manu]

This should be fun....too bad I won't be able to see her post :eusa_whis

http://www.chrlen.ch/gl/images/smilies/popcorn.gif

[Master E]

*Grabs Popcorn* *kicks back and relax while another fued starts*:D