Emotions or just being silly

[Greengungo]

As this happen to anyone you had a school sweetheart and separated because of parents but you had deep feelings for this person but had to be obedient you search for this person for years without success so you moved on with your life. Unfortunately/fortunately this person turn back in your life and you realise the feelings are still there. :icon_redf

[Bashment Girl]

As this happen to anyone you had a school sweetheart and separated because of parents but you had deep feelings for this person but had to be obedient you search for this person for years without success so you moved on with your life. Unfortunately/fortunately this person turn back in your life and you realise the feelings are still there. :icon_redf

This hasn't happened to me personally. I do believe that when people are meant to be together, even if separated for a time, they will end up together. Depending on the situation you find your selves in at the moment, you may have to accept a different kind relationship. Either way though, you were brought back together for a reason. Take time, discover what that reason is and, remember that being older more mature and at different points in life.... things may be different.

All the best.

[Greatis]

hmmm that's rough. just wondering tho. When this person reappeared in your life if you're referring to your's were you involved with someone else?

[philben]

Greengungo - this happens far too often - I guess we are sometimes too young to stand up for what we want and just let go because our parents should know best. This happened to me - I cannot say whether it is fortunate or unfortunate because getting back together can be tricky when so many things have gone on in each of your lives seperately.
Pay attention to Greatis' question....I guess your answer would make the situation fortunate or unfortunate.

[Kitten]

This has never happened to me, but I wonder if you can go back. Maybe it was meant to be the way it is. But if you feel you want to try and see then its up to you. I hope it works out for you. :)

[Greengungo]

To your answer greatis i am in a serious relationship and thought that i have gotten over it all these years but the mind is very powerful i try to tell myself i will get over it soon.

[Cocoa]

Well since you are in a serious relationship then I guess the high school sweetheart and you should remain as memories then.

[Greatis]

Well since you are in a serious relationship then I guess the high school sweetheart and you should remain as memories then.

That is easier said that done JB simply because the feelings never died and they broke up mutually. You are now trodding a dangerous path GG.

[Cocoa]

So what do you suggest for him to do Greatis?

[InkyP1]

You say you separated because of your parents what was the reason. Give me more details.

[philben]

I agree with Greatis, you are troddiing on dangerous ground - the mind may say - "I wonder what it would be like to be with this person" Givsing up something serious for something that you don't know how it will turn out can be downright suicide......just my thought

[Gillion]

You say you separated because of your parents what was the reason. Give me more details.
how yuh fass so ?

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[Gillion]

@greengungoo.. bredrin...

what you want fi do ?

[InkyP1]

You have some nerve to say that but anyway he came and asked a question we should know something to help answer the question.

He hasnt come back since posting the question.

[Greengungo]

Hi

I am back sorry if i sounded like and he i am a she, i grew up with really strict parents what i consider overbearing (still love them) but we starting out at 14 and it look innocent but for my parents all they could see was a baby coming (not thinking i am smarter than that) but we continued, when we left school and thought it was a better time now my mother would have none of it and really embrass me infront of him so instead of standing up i pretended the next time i saw him that i was not interested so he spoke to me tell me what his plans for the future were and i just ignored what he was saying in order for him to leave to prevent anymore embarassment, and i think i turn him off and that was the last i saw of him.

[Greatis]

hehe why you all think GG was a male hehe.

Seriously though that was messed up what you did to him GG. But Gillion's question still stands what do you want to do? What does your gut feeling tell you to do?

Then you have to go back and evaluate your current relationship on grounds like, Do I see a future for this relationship? etc.

[Greengungo]

You know i mess up then and i had to live with it for all these years and what i have right now is very precious to me and i really dont even want to think about messing up again so i will stick to what i have and just call the past good memories its rough but i think its the correct thing to do.

[Greatis]

You know i mess up then and i had to live with it for all these years and what i have right now is very precious to me and i really dont even want to think about messing up again so i will stick to what i have and just call the past good memories its rough but i think its the correct thing to do.

That's it I would agree with a decision like. if what you have is going good then let that stay and work on it. Besides you guys were together when you were younger things my have changed for him and you as well. You may not click anymore. you never know good Choice though. ;)

[philben]

Yeah, i concur. good choice.

[Gillion]

exellent move GreenGungo... don't swap black dog for monkey

[Pondadat]

You know i mess up then and i had to live with it for all these years and what i have right now is very precious to me and i really dont even want to think about messing up again so i will stick to what i have and just call the past good memories its rough but i think its the correct thing to do.

Now your talking I like what your saying and If you love her then that is the best thing to do. Sometimes we make mistakes in the past and it is painful but its best to leave in the past and done. You should like a nice person keep your head up. It will work out for the best man. :)

[Greatis]

hmmm Pona Greengungo is a She not an he