he wants me to marry him

[imustbcrazy]

I just met a jamaican 3 weeks ago, he wants me to marry him.
I have heard so many bad things about these men, till I don't know what
the truth is. I heard they beat woman, they are controlling and very jealous.
I adore this man and I have only met him one time, but ew talk everyday.
Is this man for real? Or does he just want to get in the state.


please help I need all the help I can get :eusa_thin

[Arch_Angel]

Oh wow. I almost thought you were giving us a hard question. hehe
This one is simple: don't marry him.

Good luck. :)

[Bashment Girl]

I just met a jamaican 3 weeks ago, he wants me to marry him.

This is all I need to know... becareful of this guy! It has nothing to do with his Nationality... it's the fact that he's known you for 3 weeks and all of a sudden he's ready to settle down?

Becareful he doesn't ask you to file some papers for him too if you catch my drift!

Keep your eyes open with this guy and trust intuition. Especially when it says to back away a bit..:cool:

[Bashment Girl]

Oh wow. I almost thought you were giving us a hard question. hehe
This one is simple: don't marry him.

Good luck. :)

I love it! lol.... that's it! Even my post was a bit too long eh? lol :)

[Kitten]

Hmmm this sounds juicey too bad we cant here the details. Wat did you do to this man to make him go crazy or did he make you go crazy. (Joke) :icon_mrgr by the way did you introduce yourself. I didnt see it. :)

[Drew]

yo i feel offended as a jamaican man.

[Kitten]

yo i feel offended as a jamaican man.

How man, wat mek? dont bex boo its all good ;)

[Cocoa]

I just met a jamaican 3 weeks ago, he wants me to marry him.
I have heard so many bad things about these men, till I don't know what
the truth is. I heard they beat woman, they are controlling and very jealous.
I adore this man and I have only met him one time, but ew talk everyday.
Is this man for real? Or does he just want to get in the state.


please help I need all the help I can get :eusa_thinDon't marry him so soon, wait a while like when you know him some more, ad more. Three weeks is wayyy too soon. In getting to know him you will find out that men are men regardless of nationality and they can be prince charmings or scrubs. But, a Jamaican man I love myself....they have good and bad.

So don't listen to rumors, find out about this man for your self and never generalize.

Next, you should also know whether or not he is trying to boops yu out in wantin gto come to the state. He could be real, he could just be that he wants to marry to come here. Watch out!

[Drew]

yo let me tell you something honey. jamaican men are hard working loving and caring individuals, just like every class there are a few bad apples. we know what we want and don't settle for anything less.

tell me something, how many men you know will take on an less than perfect woman. jamaican men don't care bout nun a det memba me tell u. as long as it name woman and she's a good girl, we'll love her. how many men in other countries won't stand up for dem woman. jamaican men will kill fi protect their ladies.

i witnessed today a woman being robbed. after she tell everybody seh was robbed man run dem dun and turn them over to police in new kgn. i was suprised them neva fling on some lick. try that example in another country, people wouldn't even care.

yo mi a end dis now b4 mi type something i might regret.

[Bashment Girl]

yo let me tell you something honey. jamaican men are hard working loving and caring individuals, just like every class there are a few bad apples. we know what we want and don't settle for anything less.

tell me something, how many men you know will take on an less than perfect woman. jamaican men don't care bout nun a det memba me tell u. as long as it name woman and she's a good girl, we'll love her. how many men in other countries won't stand up for dem woman. jamaican men will kill fi protect their ladies.

i witnessed today a woman being robbed. after she tell everybody seh was robbed man run dem dun and turn them over to police in new kgn. i was suprised them neva fling on some lick. try that example in another country, people wouldn't even care.

yo mi a end dis now b4 mi type something i might regret.

You know I feel your pain Drew because I know there are beautiful Yaad Men out there that are so good to their women. I love Caribbean men to the core, always have always will!

I will also be completely honest with you and tell you this:

The worst stereotypes, negative comments, insulting comments, and flat out ignorance have come from Jamaicans! It was my friends that were Jamaican females that were telling me negative things about Jamacain men.. not North Americans, not my family, it was Jamaicans saying those things!

So I undersand your pain but, I think sometimes in any community or culture, it's own members are the ones who perpetuate negative stereo types. :(

Sad but true, in my experience anyway. :cool:

I think all cultures have good & bad people and to me, it's annoying to continually hear the same negative stereotypes about Caribbean men... specifically Jamaicans. :cool:

[Cocoa]

The worst stereotypes, negative comments, insulting comments, and flat out ignorance have come from Jamaicans! It was my friends that were Jamaican females that were telling me negative things about Jamacain men.. not North Americans, not my family, it was Jamaicans saying those things!
Sorry to hear this, but it is the opposite for me. African Americans, Latinoes and even Caucasians have the most negative things to say to me. The Jamaican men appreciates me more. Then again, this is my experience also.


I think all cultures have good & bad people and to me, it's annoying to continually hear the same negative stereotypes about Caribbean men... specifically Jamaicans. :cool :eusa_clap :eusa_clap great words Bashy.

[Bashment Girl]

Sorry to hear this, but it is the opposite for me. African Americans, Latinoes and even Caucasians have the most negative things to say to me. The Jamaican men appreciates me more. Then again, this is my experience also.


Yes I find that a lot of cultures have stereotypes in their mind about Jamaicans and Caribbean people in general but JCB when I ask them "Where are you getting THAT information from?" everytime with out FAIL! They always tell me another Jamaican told them that! They've never had a Jamaican man as a friend or boyfriend, yet they have ALL of these awful things to say. They heard someone say something and they believe it.

I can tell you that even when I told my friend I wanted to go to JA in November or April 2005.... she told me all kinds of things. I'm going to get attacked, raped, blah blah blah! I mean if I wasn't of Caribbean decent I may have actually listened to her! People like that make my belly turn really!!!

Long story short... I hear a lot of Jamaicans that live in Canada now SLAM JA hard. They say terrible things because they're SELF-LOATHING people!

I love Caribbean people period! They raised me, they loved, me and made me strong! I love my Caribbean men too, I wish people would stop putting them down verbally I really do!

[Pondadat]

I would strongly advise you take the advice of people here. I think they may have alittle mor insight into these things. Really not knowing were your from it would be better if we had alittle mor information about you.

[Greatis]

hmm Imustbecrazy hmmm You seem to like this dude. The short ans is No three weeks and thinking about marriage. You haven't even seen him yet.

[InkyP1]

This sounds absurd to me and this is not a joke its hard for me to believe that you asked the question in the first place. Im sorry to say, but it sounds like you dont know that you are about to get played. How old are you anyway?

[Tastee]

This sounds absurd to me and this is not a joke its hard for me to believe that you asked the question in the first place. Im sorry to say, but it sounds like you dont know that you are about to get played. How old are you anyway?


This would be good to know still this is a bad idea.