Question Do you think.............

[Lisa20]

I realize that a whole lot has changed since my last vist but i believe that now is the right time to ask a question.
Can anyone relate to this?
You have a friend who has been with a guy for about six years and then she has his child, all of a sudden the relationship ends...... just like that.

Do you think that it is the fault of the man, child or the woman?

Now people lets not be shy. Let me hear what you have to say.

[Cocoa]

I realize that a whole lot has changed since my last vist but i believe that now is the right time to ask a question.
Can anyone relate to this?
You have a friend who has been with a guy for about six years and then she has his child, all of a sudden the relationship ends...... just like that.

Do you think that it is the fault of the man, child or the woman?

Now people lets not be shy. Let me hear what you have to say.I think it not the woman's or the child's fault. (Unless there were other issues between the man and the woman). It could mean that he is afraid of this new experience coming in his life. He could also be a little shocked and backed out of the responsibility.

However, that is a little weak on his part and he needs to adjust his behaviour and stand up to his child.

[AngelsKiss]

First, lets rule the baby out of this. The kid cannot be at fault since it never asked to be born and it's only a child.

Secondly, there is too little information to place any form of blame.

Thirdly, there are 2 ppl in the relationship, takes 2 persons to tango, in other words, could be issues with both persons, not necessarily one.