View Full Version : Letting go of your Ex
BlackCryptoKnight
October 21, 2004, 09:04 PM
If your ex-partner went on and got married to someone else, how would you feel? Would you be upset? Would you want to go to the wedding? Would it matter to you at all?
Zoley!
October 21, 2004, 09:15 PM
That would depend on what type of relationship we maintained. If we parted and were still friends. I wouldnt have a problem with it and I would wish him and the misses well. I have love for my ex so I would say I would be ok with it.
Cocoa
October 22, 2004, 12:57 AM
If your ex-partner went on and got married to someone else, how would you feel? Would you be upset? Would you want to go to the wedding? Would it matter to you at all?If my ex-partner went ahead and got married to someone else I would not feel no way. I wouldn't have a problem going to the wedding and it wouldn't matter to me at all. Especially if we had remained friends after the break up and I know I donot have those feelings for him again. Life goes on ...
However if it was one of those exes that I didn't remain friends with or we lost contact or its just not worth having him on my list...then I couldn't care less what he did, who he married to and for what reason. Once I am done with you (bad reason for breakup), I am done and there is no turning back.
BlackCryptoKnight
November 5, 2005, 07:09 PM
Some people can't let go. Dem end up going eena di stalkin' ting. :eusa_snoo
Drew
November 5, 2005, 07:27 PM
you know, i don't speak to any of my exs anymore. dunno why, it just happened. so, for me, if i heard in the future that they got married or something i would think to myself if she hasn't changed, poor guy.
if i got invited to the wedding, i wouldn't go. and that goes double if i have a current mistress.
couldn't care less if she got married or whatever she has done.
Lisa20
November 5, 2005, 07:35 PM
well i try not to keep friends with my ex either.......................mi only talk to the one dem wah owe me money, it would not profit if i did.
acidblade
November 5, 2005, 08:36 PM
well i try not to keep friends with my ex either.......................mi only talk to the one dem wah owe me money, it would not profit if i did.
:eusa_clap :rofl: :rotflm:
bernie
November 5, 2005, 10:30 PM
an ex of mine got married not too long ago (wasn't invited to the wedding tho) and i felt happy for her cause we had both moved on. we broke up cause her father said we were cousins. checked it out and found out my great grand aunt married some cousin of his (means we really were not blood related).
Manu
November 5, 2005, 10:36 PM
I'm frenz with all of them....cos all of them still want I man....a joke. But you know...I burn no bridges..... never know when you might needa helping hand!
bernie
November 5, 2005, 10:43 PM
I'm frenz with all of them....cos all of them still want I man....a joke. But you know...I burn no bridges..... never know when you might needa helping hand!
a helping hand from your exs.......hmmmmmm:eusa_thin
Manu
November 5, 2005, 11:09 PM
If you made a good impression then it shouldn't be a problem (MC leave it alone)
pogi_2nr
November 7, 2005, 10:05 AM
A helping hand from your ex? why would you want them to spank your monkey?
Twinkie
November 7, 2005, 07:20 PM
I went to my Ex's wedding. I even participated in the ceremony. [bright eeeeeh??]
I wasn't carrying any hard feelings, I cried because it was a beautiful and emotional wedding.
I was woman enough to let go, even though I "KNEW" I was gonna get married before him. ha ha ha on me
Cocoa
November 7, 2005, 07:24 PM
Most of them I LET GO meaning, tell them no email me, call, write, telegram, tek a flight, no form of contact. there are like...um... umm.. one, two that I actually talk to still.
You just have to know when their purpose in your life is over! I learnt that.
Jae
November 7, 2005, 11:03 PM
I'm frenz with all my exes, except the ones that died mysteriously:icon_twis :icon_twis :icon_twis :icon_mrgr
bernie
November 7, 2005, 11:48 PM
Most of them I LET GO meaning, tell them no email me, call, write, telegram, tek a flight, no form of contact. there are like...um... umm.. one, two that I actually talk to still.
You just have to know when their purpose in your life is over! I learnt that.
sounds like an army you had there:eusa_shif
Jae
November 7, 2005, 11:50 PM
sounds like an army you had there:eusa_shif
Very funny Bernie....:icon_redf
bernie
November 7, 2005, 11:56 PM
Very funny Bernie....:icon_redf
oh i'm sorry...didn't mean to sound insensative......
**black widow**:eusa_whis
easyskanka
November 8, 2005, 05:48 AM
sounds like an army you had there:eusa_shif
Probably because she was in the army Bernie:D
Jae
November 8, 2005, 09:24 AM
oh i'm sorry...didn't mean to sound insensative......
**black widow**:eusa_whis
Min' u become one of my victims:icon_mrgr
bernie
November 8, 2005, 10:13 AM
Min' u become one of my victims:icon_mrgr
oh yeah? well i got the anti-venom for you spidey...so bring it on
pogi_2nr
November 8, 2005, 10:16 AM
I have problems letting go of my exs.. its really sad.
Jae
November 8, 2005, 10:58 AM
oh yeah? well i got the anti-venom for you spidey...so bring it on
U think so...:icon_twis
Jae
November 8, 2005, 10:58 AM
I have problems letting go of my exs.. its really sad.
Dreams of building that Harem deflated don't it???
pogi_2nr
November 8, 2005, 04:30 PM
Dreams of building that Harem deflated don't it???
big man, I am a one woman man.
Jae
November 8, 2005, 04:41 PM
big man, I am a one woman man.
U come back with the man argument again...leave me out of ur fantasies plz Pogi:mad:
bernie
November 8, 2005, 05:08 PM
U come back with the man argument again...leave me out of ur fantasies plz Pogi:mad:
oh lawwd tory come to bump:dwl: :dwl:
Manu
November 8, 2005, 10:25 PM
I notice say pogi's posts taking a serious turn you know....turn for the worst....them kinda backward and the pun is intended :mad:
bernie
November 9, 2005, 12:08 PM
I notice say pogi's posts taking a serious turn you know....turn for the worst....them kinda backward and the pun is intended :mad:
well...him did post earlier seh him have a problem so i dont know
maybe him a drink suppm:eusa_thin
Twinkie
November 9, 2005, 12:40 PM
I have problems letting go of my exs.. its really sad.
You seem to have a lot of sadness...:icon_frow
RachieBabie
March 19, 2007, 07:22 PM
If your ex-partner went on and got married to someone else, how would you feel? Would you be upset? Would you want to go to the wedding? Would it matter to you at all?
as long as i dnt kno her.. all is well...i wud go to the wedding only if it were in a far away place.. (free transport/hotel etc must be accompanied)
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