Why do women ignore mens feelings?

[Greatis]

Take the lead Angel while I wait on Zoley's response. Zoley I only making conversation too. Just contributing myself no pun intended.

[Zoley!]

Take the lead Angel while I wait on Zoley's response. Zoley I only making conversation too. Just contributing myself no pun intended.

Wat do ya. Stop call mi name man. mi ave wuk to do. Hey mi tink ya bread need sum butter. so miya ope ya get dat properly. zeen no pun intended (lol). Tonight miya see unu

[AngelsKiss]

Ok here goes...

The first thing to look at is why ppl enter into relationships.

Some do for the sake of companionship..love, family, etc. Then there are those who do for purely selfish reason, money, status, sex, etc. If its for selfish reasons then of course you will have the inconsiderate person with no thought for anyone but themselves.

If someone is in a relationship for the right reasons and is not very thougthful of the other person's feelings then I say it usually has to do with their experiences, whether as kids or as adults and as you know those experiences varies.

Bare in mind that its also for the person who is suffering from the lack of understanding, right to stand up for him/herself. Its also about communication between both parties. If communication isn't working, get some outside help (counseling) and if that don't work then you may just have to go your seperate ways. Oh and don't leave out the prayers.

Of course it all sounds simple but it is not.

[Zoley!]

Greatis

Ok I am not generalizing if you read my post clearly I have used the word most although the question is general. I am also referring to the women that I have dealt with and of course other men may have the same question.


Your question was "Why do women ignore mens feelings?" The answer is not an easy one because dealing with just having this question. We could analyze it forever and still not draw out what the basis of this question means to you. And to resolve an issue that you have about the emotions of women it would be better if we had something to work with, rather than play a guessing game. This can not be concluded so easily and may take a continuous effort to satisfy you and your peers knowledge and understanding of the female psyche. Life is not perfect and there are not perfect answers, but in discussing the issue it may give you a better insight into "How the game is played". So give us a case scenario that involves a woman ignoring your feelings. or hypothetical situation. And we can go from there. Peace

[InkyP1]

I like what you had to say Angelkiss and its a good answer. The scenario thing is also good answer Zoley. You can make it a series like a drama. Hey and another thing nobody understands these quotes. they dont know Zoley Language. I did explain in the good moring thread. but you have to write that beside your little sayings. Cause you have people thinking some innuendo. Ok. lov ya. Im out no more time.

[InkyP1]

Hey wh appen to the Greatis you cant run now! that how u tan?

[Greatis]

not running InkyP after all I am a big man.

But still I hmmm an hypothesis huh. Well I guess a male has problems at work. he comes home he is emotional drained proceeds to talk to his spouse. Only to be broken by her lamentations about something and she not hearing him out. I guess that could serve as one.

[Pondadat]

This is a communication issue. Thats all that is. and men dont want to hear whining. They want to be heard, but they dont like to listen. So you have to work that out. In the listening and answering part. Hey its not easy. I dont like to listen either sometimes and you have to in a relationship. So thats both man and woman do that. Its not just a women thing.

[Drew]

pondadat, finally someone hit the nail on the head. i stopped posting in this thread a long time ago.

i couldn't agree more. communication is key to a relationship and men and women both suffer from this malfunction. men wants to dominate and women want to be heard, so what happens is this constant ingnoring about each others feelings and they try to get their point across.

communication is listening, understanding and replying. this is what i do, sometimes my partners hate it, but we both get to communicate. i don't say a word, just look at her and let her say what she has to say, and i listen. then i ask her if she's finish. then i make my points, if she tries to interupt me i say to her that its my turn, i made her talk and i listen. and we do this back and forth until there is agreement. this really works for me. i do this with everyone in which i debate with.

its just like this thread, if you don't read each others post, you're going to chat crap. i don't think women ignore men's feelings, and i don't think men ignore women's feelings. i just think that we each forget that we all have feelings every once in awhile, and try to make our point.

guys don't like to show emotions, because they believe its weak. thats crap. but once you show your lady that you have feelings, trust me she'll take care of it. women are way more caring than men, so if she sees emotions she'll treat you properly. of course, there is always a selected few who are going to do otherwise.

[Greatis]

Ok so we are getting somewhere. hmmm well communication is key and you will hear females saying it all the time but do they practice it?