Love is irrational.

[Island Girl]

Where do we women get off thinking that we cant function without men in our lives? That is how many women get hurt, because when men ill treat them they suck and swallow; in other words they accept the ill treatment because they dont want be alone. Ladies you need to emancipate yourselves from this mental slavery, start feeling comfortable with yourselves, spend some time with yourself, love yourself, find your self worth so that when a man comes into your life and treats you like a maid you let him know that unless he treats you like a queen there wil be no room in your life, bed or panty for him.

[Gillion]

Where do we men get off thinking that we cant function without women in our lives? That is how many men get hurt, because when women ill treat them they suck and swallow; in other words they accept the ill treatment because they dont want be alone.

Gentlement you need to emancipate yourselves from this mental slavery, start feeling comfortable with yourselves, spend some time with yourself, love yourself, find your self worth so that when a woman comes into your life and treats you like a butler you let her know that unless she treats you like a king there wil be no room in your life, bed or boxers for her.

Door swing both way baby... walk good.

[Drew]

LMAO, nice come back gillion that was really funny.

[yardgirl]

That was funny.The door really swings both ways.

[yardgirl]

So what do you do when your caught in situation that someone is inlove with you but other circumstances prevent you from having a successful relationship with them. how do you tell them that they will get hurt so it has to end. i mean isn't ending it hurting them? how do you determine what will hurt more? leaving now or later

[Cocoa]

So what do you do when your caught in situation that someone is in love with you but other circumstances prevent you from having a successful relationship with them. how do you tell them that they will get hurt so it has to end. i mean isn't ending it hurting them? how do you determine what will hurt more? leaving now or later

LOL..Gillon you never cease to amaze me. However, you both are correct in saying that.

yardygirl....Well I have beenin that situation a number of times. What i did was tell them any how. Especially if the situations are excrucinating. No use in going with the motions without no direction. Yes it may hurt, but it is just something that you had to do. Both leavignow and later will hurt, but better do it now and face it, than never.

On a flip side, how bad is the situation? Is it to a point where you can work it out and the outcoome seems possible?...to each its own. Now you must decide.

[Lisa20]

LOL..Gillon you never cease to amaze me. However, you both are correct in saying that.

yardygirl....Well I have beenin that situation a number of times. What i did was tell them any how. Especially if the situations are excrucinating. No use in going with the motions without no direction. Yes it may hurt, but it is just something that you had to do. Both leavignow and later will hurt, but better do it now and face it, than never.

On a flip side, how bad is the situation? Is it to a point where you can work it out and the outcoome seems possible?...to each its own. Now you must decide.

I am gonna be honest. I have learn from the best that suck and swallow is the wost decision you could ever make in your entire like. Be upfront about the situation and let him know how you feel, if you have to leave well go for it cause he is not the only fish in the sea, and there will be better. No matter how many years you have been with him let him know that you have reached the end of the line and it is move on time now.

it is gonna hurt like crazy but life goes on. You might be surprised to find the one person how will erase the hurt and abondonment you felt and show the kind of happiness that you never knew existed.

So Yardygirl i agree with you that we need to start loving ourselves. This is the first step to you healing process.
Peace.

[little warchief]

gillion you hard yute ! but how me see it a man need a woman in them life other than female relatives and a woman need a man in them life also....after that was God's plan for unity interms of a man and a woman ! but i have seen situations where people are able to function without the opposite sex but really....in what way?

[Manu]

We both need each other. Come on people. We are social creatures and it's against nature to only socialise with the same gender. All you guys need to do is work out what ever problems unu having one way or the other and take it from there....afterall...ladies love the company of a good man and vice versa. Walk good!

[flirt]

that was funny

Where do we men get off thinking that we cant function without women in our lives? That is how many men get hurt, because when women ill treat them they suck and swallow; in other words they accept the ill treatment because they dont want be alone.

Gentlement you need to emancipate yourselves from this mental slavery, start feeling comfortable with yourselves, spend some time with yourself, love yourself, find your self worth so that when a woman comes into your life and treats you like a butler you let her know that unless she treats you like a king there wil be no room in your life, bed or boxers for her.

Door swing both way baby... walk good.